I’ve officially reached my 40s and find myself surrounded by teenagers, and honestly, I’m fed up with young voices on the internet trying to dictate how I should live my life. Recently, I stumbled upon yet another slideshow titled “Things Women Should Avoid After 30.” One of the ridiculous suggestions? Ditching big hoop earrings.
My immediate reaction? A two-finger salute to that nonsense. Seriously, who decided that hoop earrings are off-limits after a certain age? I’ve adored these earrings for as long as I can remember. Just last week, I bought a stunning pair of silver hoops that dangle to my shoulders because my inner free spirit relishes the gypsy vibe—hoops, bangles, the whole nine yards. And yet, some young woman thinks she has the authority to tell me what I can and can’t wear because I’ve crossed a milestone? Absolutely not.
It’s precisely because I’m “older” that I’ve stopped caring about societal expectations regarding my appearance. I got my first tattoo at 40, dyed my hair teal this year, and guess what? It looks fantastic. My favorite footwear? Good old Doc Martens. I dare any young person—probably younger than the very underwear I own—to say I can’t wear them anymore.
You know what women should really avoid after turning 30? They should steer clear of telling other women how to dress or live. They should reject the societal pressures placed upon them by others. They should never suppress their true selves to conform to outdated standards. They shouldn’t listen to anyone proclaiming, “You can’t do that.” They shouldn’t let inexperienced internet trolls bully them into submission.
How can we empower our daughters to chase their dreams when we succumb to the whims of adolescents online telling us we can’t wear hoop earrings after a certain age? No, thank you. I firmly reject your outdated notions of how women over 30 should express themselves—be it through clothing, hairstyles, or attitude. I’ve never been one to buckle under peer pressure, and that conviction has only strengthened as I’ve gotten older.
Listen up, young one: You haven’t lived long enough to dictate my choices. Survive to my age, and then you can establish your own rules. Until then, I’ll wear whatever length skirt I please while rocking my trusty Converse sneakers. And for the record, who do you think compliments my teal hair the most? Women under 30. Even they see through this absurdity.
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In summary, let’s embrace our individuality and reject the misguided standards imposed by those who haven’t yet experienced life’s complexities. Wear those hoop earrings, dye your hair wild colors, and never let anyone tell you how to live.
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