Pregnancy is a time filled with excitement and anticipation, but for some women, it comes with an unwelcome guest: severe morning sickness, or Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG). As someone who has navigated this challenging journey myself, let’s discuss some common suggestions that often miss the mark.
1. ‘Just nibble on some saltines.’
This well-meaning advice is so pervasive that those suffering from HG often joke about being “crackered.” Sure, saltines are touted for their tummy-soothing properties, but let’s be real. When you’re battling the urge to vomit every few minutes, a sleeve of crackers isn’t going to save the day. Trust me, I’ve tried, and they returned to haunt me moments later!
2. ‘Ginger ale or ginger chews work wonders!’
I love ginger; it’s a fantastic spice for soothing colds. But when I’m experiencing HG, ginger isn’t going to cut it. The reality is, if ice cubes are making their swift exit, a ginger ale is not going to stick around either.
3. ‘You really need more protein.’
I think we can all agree that protein is important during pregnancy. However, if ice is rebelling against me, I can assure you that a turkey sandwich won’t be making an appearance anytime soon.
4. ‘Have you thought about using essential oils?’
I’m all for exploring alternative remedies. I even use probiotics! But when you’re knee-deep in nausea, please don’t push essential oils my way—unless you’ve got peppermint to mask the smell of vomit. In that case, let’s diffuse away!
5. ‘Mind over matter—meditation really helps.’
I appreciate the sentiment behind this, but let’s be clear: meditation is not going to stop the relentless waves of nausea. I love yoga and breathing exercises, but it’s not a magic cure for vomiting. So, let’s drop the idea that I’m just being dramatic.
6. ‘Have you seen this article about medication side effects?’
This one hits hard. While it’s true some medications like Zofran come with risks, many of us are weighing tough choices. Sometimes, medication is necessary for survival, and we’re fully aware of the risks involved.
If you know someone struggling with HG, I understand that it might be hard to relate. Morning sickness and HG are worlds apart. Some women endure this for their entire pregnancies, sometimes even during labor. It’s a grueling experience, akin to having food poisoning for nine months straight, amidst all the other pregnancy challenges.
Instead of offering the usual platitudes, consider reading about HG to better understand what we’re going through. If you can, offer to help with errands or care for our other kids so we can focus on resting.
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In the end, genuine support and understanding go a long way.
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