After welcoming a new baby, many moms experience a transformation that can leave them feeling unrecognizable – both physically and emotionally. One moment, you’re a polished individual, and the next, you’re simply relieved if you manage to swap out your milk-stained shirt and brush your teeth. This shift in standards is completely normal.
Recently, local news anchor Jessica Thompson bravely posted a side-by-side comparison of her pre-baby and post-baby selves on social media, showcasing the significant changes motherhood brings. Unfortunately, some people responded unkindly, questioning whether they were looking at the same woman. Because, let’s face it, some people can be downright rude.
In her heartfelt post, Jessica is seen cradling her precious newborn. While the photo is undeniably sweet, it also captures the reality of being a new mom – tired, but proud. Some commenters felt the need to point out that it “doesn’t even look like her,” prompting Jessica to give them a piece of her mind.
Along with the photos, she included a candid and passionate message to her critics. She emphasized that, yes, she’s not the same person anymore, as one mean-spirited commenter implied. “Snarky message… ‘This doesn’t even look like the same person!’” she wrote, addressing the hurtful remarks directly. “Newsflash! There ARE NOT pictures of the same person.”
And she’s absolutely right.
While it’s still her, the reality is that none of us maintain the same appearance after giving birth. Sure, we could apply a bit of makeup to look more like our former selves, but that would be ignoring the sleep deprivation, the endless worries, and the complete lack of free time. Jessica’s photo, which shows her looking like many new moms do – exhausted and perhaps a bit disheveled – is refreshingly real.
In her analysis of the two images, she didn’t hold back. “The woman on the left was well-rested, spent two hours on her hair and makeup, and had a professional photographer capture her photo (probably with a touch of Photoshop), all while basking in the ‘glow’ of pregnancy.” Many can relate to that feeling of being at their best during pregnancy, although I can’t say I ever felt glamorous; more like I’d just devoured a buffet of burritos.
In contrast, she describes the “after” photo: “The woman on the right got maybe two hours of sleep, hadn’t looked in the mirror, took a selfie without a filter, and is covered in spit-up and drool from a cranky baby.”
Can we take a moment to appreciate her for posting such a raw, filter-free image? As a news anchor, her public image is vital, yet she chose authenticity over perfection. I genuinely admire her for that.
Jessica still looks fantastic and radiant, embodying the essence of a new mom who is navigating the challenges of parenthood. However, one inconsiderate individual had to bring negativity into the conversation, which Jessica promptly addressed: “You must be an idiot if you think these are pictures of the same woman.”
Absolutely.
I understand the frustration when people claim you’re no longer the same after having kids. It’s a notion that can feel reductive, as if a woman’s identity is wholly defined by motherhood. We remain ourselves, yet undeniably, we are also transformed in profound ways.
Jessica’s point is clear: the images highlight stark differences, but they also reflect her personal growth. She’s now embracing her imperfections and vulnerability, which is something she likely wouldn’t have done before becoming a mom.
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In summary, Jessica Thompson’s candid post shines a light on the real challenges new moms face, and her unapologetic honesty is something we can all appreciate. It serves as a reminder that while motherhood changes us, it also brings out our truest selves.
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