It feels like just yesterday I was navigating the challenges of parenting an infant—debating breast versus bottle, cloth versus disposable diapers, and all the other early milestones. Fast forward to now, and my little girl is in seventh grade, and the stakes have changed dramatically.
Twelve is such an intriguing age, filled with a wide spectrum of behaviors. While my daughter still immerses herself in the magic of Harry Potter and enjoys playing with dolls, many of her peers are already exploring relationships and becoming sexually active (yes, it’s happening, whether we like to admit it or not). I consider myself fortunate that she shares her daily experiences with me and feels comfortable asking questions about her worries. I strive to answer her queries with honesty and realism.
Just yesterday, she confided that a boy in her class had snapped a girl’s bra, prompting her to ask what she should do if a similar incident happens to her. I pondered my response carefully. I could have offered multiple answers, but I chose to give her the straightforward advice that would serve her well in the future. However, I feel it’s only fair to provide a heads-up to parents of boys who might be in the same class as my daughter regarding what I suggested she do.
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