When life throws you a curveball and you feel overwhelmed by questions, sibling squabbles, or the classic “Mom, I’m hungry,” it’s easy to imagine that being sick could be even worse. Before motherhood, I envisioned sick days filled with cozy breakfasts in bed, sweet notes with charming misspellings, and perfectly imperfect pancakes. The reality? It’s a far cry from that idyllic fantasy – just thinking about it makes me feel more flustered.
6 AM: Rise and Shine
The alarm clock blares, jolting you from sleep. On a typical day, you’d rush down the hall to get the kids up and ready for the day ahead, whether it’s work, school, or other obligations. If only you could hit snooze, call in sick, and snuggle back under the covers! But with little ones relying on you, that’s just not an option. So, after pulling on a giant sweater to combat those chills, you drag yourself out of bed.
Midday
Squeezing in a nap while Child #1 is at school and Child #2 is glued to Kinder Surprise Egg unboxing videos is nearly impossible. My mind races with all the tasks that need to be tackled. Meanwhile, Child #2 demands lunch. Cue the closest box of cereal, paired with a string cheese appetizer – gourmet, right? Just as I finally manage to doze off for a fleeting 10 minutes, the alarm goes off, reminding me it’s time to pick up Child #1 from school. Oh great, I never showered and I’m still in the same clothes from drop-off. Who’s going to notice, anyway?
Dinner
Takeout? Yes, please!
Bedtime
After a long day, I’ve taken all the Dayquil my liver can endure and it’s time for the nighttime stuff (hang in there, liver!). I silently wish for a miracle where I can sleep through any whining, and hope my partner takes on the nighttime chaos – even if it’s in the wee hours. But, of course, I drank way too much tea and orange juice, so my bladder is betraying me, making me dash to the bathroom repeatedly. Just when I think I can rest, Child #1 wakes up from a nightmare, and guess who’s already in the hallway? Yep, me again.
Finally, I make it back to bed, ready for some rest, only to be greeted by the 6 AM alarm once more. It seems that sick days are a luxury that no longer exist for moms. If you happen to fall ill on a weekend or when your partner is home, you might get a little assistance, but let’s be honest – relinquishing control is a challenge, even when you’re feeling under the weather.
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Summary
Sick days for moms are nothing like the idyllic fantasies we once imagined. Instead of resting, we juggle responsibilities, from handling meals to soothing nightmares. Even when feeling ill, the demands of motherhood don’t take a break, and the need to maintain control can make recovery feel elusive.
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