When it comes to weddings, there are countless traditions that leave us scratching our heads. What’s the deal with a matron of honor? Why does a little kid need to be the one delivering the wedding rings? And what’s up with throwing rice? While those who have tied the knot may have the answers on hand, many of us who have never wanted or had a traditional wedding can’t help but wonder, “Why do people do this?”
It’s a well-known fact that being a bridesmaid isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. You may have dreamed of this role as a child, but the reality hits hard when you find yourself shelling out hundreds of dollars on a dress you’ll likely never wear again, not to mention matching shoes and accessories. Suddenly, the sentiment shifts from “This is going to be fun!” to “Wow, this kinda sucks—and it’s really pricey.”
The Reality of Bridesmaid Dresses
Now, let’s talk about that bridesmaid dress. Sure, some brides are starting to choose styles that can be worn again, but that was certainly not the case for the six weddings I attended. Taffeta may look great in pictures, but who really wears it after the big day? Spoiler alert: no one.
A Historical Perspective
Interestingly enough, there’s a historical reason for the matching attire of bridesmaids, and it’s a bit unsettling. According to The Dessy Group, the tradition dates back to Roman law, which required ten witnesses at a wedding to fend off evil spirits thought to lurk at marriage ceremonies. Bridesmaids and ushers wore identical clothing to the bride and groom to confuse these malevolent forces, effectively serving as decoys to protect the couple from curses. So, in a sense, the bridal party has always had a rough gig!
It’s fascinating—and a little cringe-worthy—to think about how long this tradition has been around. For more insights on the complexities of weddings and relationships, check out one of our other blog posts.
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In summary, while being a bridesmaid may seem glamorous, the reality is often a mix of tradition and unexpected expenses. The next time you find yourself in a beautiful but expensive dress, just remember: you’re part of a long-standing tradition meant to protect the couple from evil spirits.
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