When it’s time for lunch, I call out, “Lunch time!” and my kids come rushing in (after washing their hands without needing a reminder, of course). They settle into their seats without any squabbles over who sits where, and they beam at me as I serve their meal. After the first bite, they cheerfully declare, “This is amazing, Mom! Thank you for making this!” They polish off everything on their plates (without a mess, naturally), before asking to be excused. Once given the go-ahead, they clear their spots and load their dishes into the dishwasher (without any nagging, of course), and then return to their imaginative play.
But let’s be real—this is not the lunch scene in my home. Kids are just kids. They often forget to wash their hands, despite years of reminders. They squabble over who gets to sit by the window. More food ends up on the table than in their mouths, and they go through phases where they refuse anything green or only want food that starts with “C.”
Honestly, I’m not exactly a culinary expert these days either. As a busy mom, whipping up gourmet meals daily isn’t feasible. I do my best, but meal times don’t always go as planned. Here are some true-to-life examples of lunch at my house:
- I try to spice things up by cooking dishes from around the world.
- Day 1: Tacos (Success!)
- Day 2: Pad Thai (“Uh, sorry Mom, that sauce looks weird.”)
- Day 3: Sushi and seaweed salad (TOTAL UPRISING)
- Day 4: Back to sandwiches again.
- I prepare peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for my younger kids but forget that my daughter prefers hers cut into squares while my son likes triangles. They could just swap, but one insists on strawberry jam while the other only eats apricot. I’ve tried to explain that sandwiches taste the same regardless of how they’re sliced, but they’re not buying it.
- On super busy days, I opt for a lunch of simple snacks, which might seem lazy but is actually brilliant. It minimizes the number of dishes (no utensils needed!), and the kids love it. My go-to is the delightful Mini Babybel cheese, paired with apples, cucumber and carrot sticks, nuts, and some crackers or pita; it covers all the food groups. Move over, culinary legends!
- I attempt to create a Pinterest-worthy meal to celebrate the kids’ achievements at school, but end up with fruit pinwheels that fall apart, confetti pasta that clumps together because I overcooked it, and cupcakes with icing dripping down the sides because I frosted them too soon. (Sorry, I was feeling a bit too ambitious before, but lesson learned.)
- I pack a lunch for my kid with a sweet note from Mom, only to realize that the ice pack melted, causing condensation all over the bag. My heartfelt message ends up as a smeared, unreadable mess, leading my child to wonder why I put trash in their lunch.
At the end of the day, we’re all just trying to do our best for our little ones. Sometimes our efforts are fantastic, and sometimes they fall flat. There are moments when our kids truly appreciate our hard work, and other times they act like it’s a trip to the island of complaints where we can’t hear them. Some lunches are sit-down affairs, while others are more about grabbing bites on the go.
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Summary
Crafting lunches for kids can be a chaotic yet rewarding experience. From culinary experiments that fail spectacularly to snack days that save the day, it’s all about doing our best. As long as our kids are fed and happy, the specifics don’t matter.
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