When it comes to romance, it’s safe to say that my husband and I have struggled to find time for it. He’s been tirelessly working to provide for our family, and while I appreciate his hard work, it often means that I’m left to orchestrate our date nights. Although he’s been making more of an effort to be thoughtful lately, I must admit that gifts like a new rice cooker or a kitchen remodel don’t exactly ignite my romantic fire.
That said, I’m determined to make this Valentine’s Day special, regardless of what he gifts me. But let’s be honest: as a mom, I could really use some indulgence. So here’s exactly what I’d love this Valentine’s Day:
- Roses: I want a lavish display of red roses throughout the house. Not just a few, but a full dozen, carefully arranged in vases—out of reach of little hands, of course.
- Lilies: If you want to throw in some lilies, that would be delightful too. Or even better, how about a mix of both? Just remember, keep them high and safe from the kiddos.
- A Spa Day: Picture this: a day dedicated solely to pampering me with a soothing massage and a mani-pedi. And while we’re dreaming, let’s add a little liposuction and new boobs to the wish list. Okay, maybe just the spa day will suffice, but I’ll definitely be getting gel nails, so don’t even try to stop me.
- Dinner at a Fancy Restaurant: Take me to that upscale restaurant you’ve been raving about. Yes, it’s a splurge for a regular night out, but it’s Valentine’s Day! I want to indulge in an appetizer and a couple of fruity cocktails instead of just sipping on water.
- Chocolate: If you can find some fancy, guilt-free chocolate, I’m all in. If that doesn’t exist, I’ll settle for the caloric kind—just don’t forget to buy me some new clothes to go with it.
- Jewelry: I’m not looking for anything over-the-top, just a piece that shines anew, free from the wear and tear of motherhood.
- Lingerie: Surprise me with something you find exciting. I want to see you light up when you see me in it—let’s ditch the old cotton for something a bit more tantalizing.
- Mind-Blowing Intimacy: Let’s explore a new toy or a fun game together. Ever wanted to try handcuffs? Now’s your chance! Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to shake things up—even though we shouldn’t need one, right?
Sure, some of these suggestions might seem cliché, but there’s a reason they’re classic Valentine’s gifts. As a mom who became a parent before I could even raise a glass, I’ve missed out on the romance and passion that comes with dating, wining, and dining. I wouldn’t trade my life as a mother or wife for anything, but if I could have a sprinkle of romance mixed in? Well, that would be just about perfect.
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In summary, this Valentine’s Day, I want to feel cherished and pampered, with a mix of traditional and personal gifts that speak to my heart.
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