As a parent, I’ve recently found myself navigating some uncomfortable situations that left me uncertain about the right course of action. For instance, one of my children was unintentionally struck in the head by a rock thrown by a friend’s child. Should I have intervened? It was an accident, and I sensed the other child felt remorse. Ultimately, I chose to remain silent.
In another instance, I learned about a teenager, the child of a casual acquaintance, engaging in risky and illegal behaviors. If I were in their shoes, I’d want someone to let me know if my child were involved in something similar.
Many parents grapple with these dilemmas—whether to speak out or stay quiet. So, let me be clear: If my child throws a rock and accidentally injures yours, please inform me. Whether it was intentional or not, I want to know.
If my child speaks to you rudely, I expect you to tell me. If they’re dabbling in drugs, please speak up. If you spot them in questionable places or hear rumors about their behavior—whether you’re absolutely certain or not—I want to hear about it.
If my child lies to me, bullies others, or is simply being a brat, I need you to let me know. If they’re engaging in inappropriate conversations or hanging out with individuals who pose a risk to their safety, please say something.
And on a personal note, if my husband were to stray (hypothetically, of course!), I’d want to know. If I have a visible booger or if my period has begun and I’m unaware, please give me a friendly nudge.
If there’s anything that doesn’t fit into this list but you feel torn about sharing, I urge you to reach out. You can always start with, “Remember when you said you wanted to know if your kid was being difficult? Well…”
It’s crucial to support each other in our parenting journeys, and sharing concerns can only lead to better outcomes for our children. For more insights on navigating these tricky situations, check out this blog post.
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In summary, open communication is vital in parenting. If you see something concerning regarding my child, I want to hear it. After all, we’re all in this together.
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