Hey there! I’ve got a fun idea for a new holiday, and I’d love for you to join in the celebration. Let me share a little poem titled “The Ultimate Day of Rest” to explain:
You’ve cooked, you’ve cleaned,
You’ve planned and you’ve dreamed,
To make the holidays festive and bright.
But now you’re feeling drained,
Caught up in the mundane,
In tasks that were meant to bring delight.
You deserve a break,
A drink and some cake,
Maybe some guilty TV.
Let the family feast on leftovers,
While you indulge in sweet chocolates,
And send all kid requests to the tree.
“It’s a new toy day!”
“Cooking? Not today!”
The car keys stay in your purse.
Forget about showers,
Stay in your PJs for hours,
Let your hair go wild and diverse.
It’s December 26,
Time to reclaim your fix,
Of being the Queen of the Couch.
The remote is all yours,
Pour yourself some pours,
You’ve earned this day off, without a doubt.
Moms’ Day Off is December 26! Are you ready to join the fun?
I’ve been trying to make this a reality for about seven years now. While I don’t always succeed, I make a solid effort. I created this personal holiday when I realized that from December 22 to 25, I barely had time to sit down. By the time the 26th rolled around, I was completely exhausted.
The first time I celebrated Moms’ Day Off, I had a toddler and a preschooler, alongside a husband who was somewhere in the house. It took me four and a half hours to watch a movie, but I still consider it one of my best days ever. Now, whenever I see that movie on TV, I instinctively grab a glass of wine.
My kids have grown to dislike this day, likely because I remind them of its significance. “Want to watch something? Sorry, it’s Moms’ Day Off!” It makes me chuckle just thinking about it.
So, want to join me? Here are the rules:
- Mom is the absolute ruler of the remote from dawn until bedtime (and yes, you can nap on the couch).
- The car stays parked.
- Wine can be poured starting at 11 a.m. (fine, 11:30).
- No cooking allowed. The menu is all about leftovers or whatever can be self-served.
- Pajamas are the dress code. I once even showed up in my PJs for a family event!
- Naps are mandatory. Nap as often as you can.
- Anyone who isn’t mom cannot complain about anything. (This is often broken, but it’s a nice idea!)
And about dads: Can they join in? While I want to be inclusive, I hesitate to fully endorse it. Dads need to have actually helped with holiday prep to qualify. If you think you’ve done your part, you might want to reevaluate. If you take a seat on Moms’ Day Off without contributing, just know that your partner might start dreaming of silent revenge. (And yes, if a kid calls out “Mom!” on December 26, just translate it to “Dad!”)
Wishing you all a Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays! For more about the joy of motherhood and parenting, check out this other blog post on our site.
In summary, December 26 is a special day dedicated to moms taking a well-deserved break after the holiday hustle. With a few simple rules, you can reclaim some relaxation and enjoy your day off, complete with your favorite snacks and TV shows.
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