There’s an old saying that our grandparents’ generation—the resilient survivors of World Wars and the Great Depression—was the last truly admirable one. Many argue that since then, we’ve been nurturing a generation of overly pampered individuals, with today’s youth being the most coddled of all.
Higher education institutions are starting to confront this troubling trend of self-importance among students. Professors and deans are often inundated with calls from parents who are unhappy if their children (who are adults, let’s not forget) feel slighted or dissatisfied. What has led to this change? Where has our strong work ethic disappeared to? We once had 18-year-olds courageously facing danger for the sake of freedom; now we have college students, old enough to drink alcohol, asking their parents to intervene when they feel wronged.
Dr. Samuel Thompson, President of Liberty State University, has voiced his frustration with the growing entitlement mentality in his recent open letter titled “This Is Not a Daycare! It’s a University!” In a time when political correctness is at the forefront, Dr. Thompson believes we have taken things too far. He points out that students often play the victim card whenever their feelings are hurt, and those who challenge their perspectives are labeled as ‘haters’ or ‘oppressors.’
While Dr. Thompson isn’t advocating for blatant discrimination or prejudice, he raises a crucial question: Are we raising our children in an environment that makes them overly sensitive and easily offended? As a Christian institution, some may not fully resonate with his religious references. However, his core message remains relevant: when faced with criticism, instead of reacting defensively or seeking comfort from Mom, students should reflect on whether there is truth in the feedback. Maybe, he suggests, enduring some tough love could be beneficial for today’s youth.
Even prominent figures, including President Biden, have acknowledged that many youngsters are growing up without the skills to navigate the real world independently. Of course, as parents, it’s our instinct to shield our children and help them heal from wounds, both emotional and physical. I often find myself in “Mama Bear” mode when my kids face adversity. Yet, it’s our responsibility to cultivate resilient individuals who can transition into capable adults. Unfortunately, many parents seem to be missing this critical lesson, leading their kids to believe that trivial comments about their clothing mean they’ve been victimized.
I’m not suggesting that political correctness should be completely disregarded. Using outdated terms like “Indians” for Native Americans is disrespectful and inaccurate. Names matter, and the histories behind them are filled with pain and suffering. Thus, I agree with the need for changes in terminology, such as opting for “criss-cross applesauce” instead of “sitting Indian style.” However, where do we draw the line? Each year introduces new phrases and guidelines to follow to avoid offending anyone. Renowned comedians like Chris Rock, Jerry Seinfeld, and Bill Maher have even opted out of performing on college campuses, fearing backlash due to the strict adherence to political correctness. Shouldn’t humor still have a place in our lives, especially amidst the often grim news cycle?
To all college students out there: not every inconvenience makes you a victim, and misusing that label diminishes the experiences of those who genuinely suffer. There are individuals who face true adversity, and their stories deserve to be heard. Failing a paper because you procrastinated doesn’t equate to victimization. Yes, if you believe you’ve been unfairly treated, you have every right to voice your concern—but approach it like an adult. Prepare a solid argument and engage with your professor respectfully.
As Dr. Thompson aptly states, “This is a place where you will quickly learn that you need to grow up.” College should be a period of maturation, after all. Plus, don’t forget to enjoy the journey—be grateful that you’re not enduring the hardships of the Great Depression. That was no small feat, as my grandmother would say, and it certainly shaped her perspective on life.
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In summary, the message is clear: personal growth and accountability are crucial, especially in today’s world. College is not just an academic experience; it’s a vital transition into the responsibilities of adulthood. Embrace it, learn from it, and above all, enjoy the ride.
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