Breastfeeding remains a cherished practice, and thankfully, it’s becoming increasingly accepted to nurse in public – a much-needed shift in societal norms! However, if you’re nursing a toddler, you might often face that notorious judgmental glare from passersby. As your little one grows and no longer relies solely on breast milk for nutrition, it’s crucial to establish some “nursing manners.” After all, you don’t want your shirt getting yanked down during an impromptu stop in the middle of the grocery store.
The good news? Your toddler is now at an age where they can understand boundaries (most of the time). Take the opportunity to communicate with them about designated nursing times, like before naps and at bedtime. If your child asks to nurse at other times, gently remind them, “Nursing is for sleepy time, remember?” You can also redirect their attention by cuddling or offering a distraction, such as a favorite book or a sippy cup. With patience, they’ll learn to respect these boundaries, and the urgent requests for nursing in public will likely decrease.
Let’s face it: toddlers are bundles of energy. You may find yourself in what could only be described as “nursing gymnastics,” as your little one wriggles, stretches, and glances around during a session. If the situation becomes too chaotic, it’s okay to remove them from your lap. Calmly explain that nursing is a time for stillness. Consistency is key here; if they realize that squirming and other antics lead to an end to nursing, they might just start to settle down. (Trust me, we’ve all had moments of exasperation, including the time when one of us yelled, “MY BOOBS ARE NOT A TOY!”)
A word of wisdom: toddlers can sometimes seem fixated on nursing. It’s perfectly acceptable to say no, even if it results in tears. Acknowledge their feelings, then provide comfort in other ways, like a loving hug.
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In summary, navigating nursing with a toddler requires patience and clear boundaries. With time, your little one will learn to adapt to the nursing limits you set while you both enjoy this special bonding experience.
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