In a sea of pregnancy and baby literature, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the sheer volume of “Newborn 101” advice available for expectant mothers. You’ll come across recommendations like “nap when your baby naps,” “breastfeed 8 to 12 times a day,” and “accept every offer of assistance.” It’s a long list, but despite how much you read and prepare, the reality of life with a newborn—especially your first—will inevitably catch you off guard. You’re entering a sisterhood that offers the steepest initiation, and all the meal prep and diaper stockpiling won’t truly prepare you for what lies ahead.
As I watch more friends embark on the journey of motherhood, I’ve compiled some insights that you won’t find in those countless baby books. This advice comes from experience—having navigated the newborn stage twice.
- Keep Tissues Handy: You’ll find yourself crying more than you expect—perhaps not as much as your newborn, but close enough. Hormonal changes will send your emotions on a rollercoaster ride, but rest assured, this phase won’t last forever. You’ll soon find yourself laughing at what once brought you to tears.
- Store Away Cloth Diapers: As eco-friendly as they are, you won’t want to deal with cloth diapers during those early weeks. Newborn poop? You’ll soon understand. Trust me, you’ll appreciate the convenience of disposables during this time.
- Invest in Quality Nursing Pads: Be prepared for unexpected moments of letdown. Whether it’s a flush of a toilet or the sight of a cat, your milk will surprise you. Good nursing pads will save you some embarrassment.
- Use Your Changing Pad: No matter how tempting it is to change a diaper anywhere convenient, your newborn will likely take this as an opportunity to pee or poop right when you’re least prepared.
- Take a Shower: Even if it’s just a quick rinse, it’ll help you feel human again. Strap your little one into a bouncy seat and enjoy a few moments of self-care.
- Get Out of the House Daily: Even if it’s just a brief stroll around the block, fresh air can work wonders for your mental health. Don’t let your worn-out pajamas become your daily attire.
- Stop Reading Parenting Material: It’s easy to get caught up in the overwhelming amount of advice available online. Take a break from all the blogs and books; too much information can lead to confusion.
- Enjoy a Drink: If you want a beer or a glass of wine, go for it! The idea that nursing mothers have to abstain from alcohol is often overstated. A little relaxation could be just what you need to cope with the challenges of new motherhood.
- Ask for Help: Don’t hesitate to reach out to friends for specific needs—like grocery runs. People want to help, so make your needs known without feeling guilty.
- Take Breaks: It’s amazing how a simple trip to the grocery store can feel like a mini-vacation when you’re a new mom. Enjoy those little moments of freedom.
- Stay Present: While those first weeks can feel endless, remember that they’ll pass in the blink of an eye. Cherish these fleeting moments, even the messy ones. You’ll look back and miss these early days.
Now, put down the phone for a bit, wash your hair, and step outside for some fresh air.
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Summary
Entering motherhood is a profound experience filled with challenges and joys. From keeping tissues handy to asking for help, these real-life tips will better prepare you for the journey ahead. Remember to take care of yourself amidst the chaos and cherish each moment with your newborn.
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