As a 30-something soccer mom, I’m on the lookout for a new best friend to share this wild ride of motherhood with. If you’re a clean-freak CrossFitter, this probably isn’t the place for you. I’m all for healthy eating, but I believe in balance—let’s share a froyo at that adorable spot our kids can’t get enough of.
I’m looking for someone who is compassionate, understanding, and willing to spend time on my couch while my toddler plays, listening to me vent about the same five topics (you know how it goes!). You don’t need to call me frequently but are more than happy to keep the conversation going through texts and social media. Ideally, you’re someone who isn’t easily intimidated or overly judgmental. If I’m still in my glasses and flannel pajama bottoms at noon, you won’t be texting my husband or mother about it.
You should have your own strong opinions and style that you’re excited to share. Confidence is key—you won’t feel the need to compare our lives, whether it’s about whose husband has the better job or who has the bigger house. At this point in life, those things are trivial; we’re beyond that.
I want a partner in adventure. Whether it’s trying out a pole dancing class or loading up the kids for a beach day, let’s embrace spontaneity together! You’re well-read, and you understand that not everything that gains popularity is high literature—50 Shades of Grey definitely doesn’t fit that bill. Your youthful wild side may have mellowed, and while caffeine might be your only vice, you still enjoy an occasional glass of wine without going overboard.
You’ve likely attended either Lollapalooza or Lilith Fair and hope to introduce your kids to the artists that shaped your music taste. It’s crucial to me that you’re not looking to use our friendship as a stepping stone in social circles. Whether you belong to a country club or not doesn’t matter—what counts is that you won’t ghost me when a newer, flashier mom comes on the scene.
I’m not interested in hosting parties for purses, jewelry, or cleaning products, and I hope you aren’t either. I seek a friendship based solely on genuine connection. You should still hold onto hope, despite previous friendships that didn’t work out. I’ve been searching for you for so long, and if we find each other at this stage in our lives, I’m all in. I truly hope you are too.
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In summary, I’m on the hunt for a BFF who values real connection over social status, enjoys a good balance of adventure and relaxation, and is ready to share in this beautiful chaos called motherhood. If you think we might be a match, let’s connect!
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