Have you come across the concept of elimination communication? I hadn’t, until I stumbled upon the phrase while searching for “diaper-free baby solutions.” My curiosity piqued after chatting with local women in rural Thailand, who shared their experiences of raising children without diapers. Their solution? Simply hold the little ones over the ground when nature calls.
Determined to emulate their approach, I thought, “If they can manage it, so can I!” That was my first miscalculation. After all, these resilient women were far more accustomed to challenges than I was.
During my pregnancy, my husband and I traveled extensively, with Southeast Asia being our final destination. I was captivated by the sight of diaperless babies, which fueled my idealistic ambition to reduce our family’s reliance on disposable diapers. Ignorant of the chaotic journey ahead, I dived into research on elimination communication. I devoured The Diaper-Free Baby, bought a BabyBjörn infant potty seat, and imagined the savings we’d enjoy.
Initially, it was surprisingly manageable. My son managed to pee on cue at just three days old, responding to the “psss, psss, psss” sound I practiced beforehand. I felt an overwhelming sense of accomplishment. “Why isn’t everyone doing this?” I proudly queried my husband. It seemed far easier than dealing with traditional diaper changes!
In those early months, as we transitioned from carefree travelers to exhausted parents, my main joy revolved around catching my son’s potty moments in any container except a diaper. I became somewhat obsessed, showcasing his impressive skills to anyone who visited. Most friends backed away slowly, but I didn’t let that deter me. I felt it was perfectly acceptable to cue him in parks, on hiking trails, or even over the toilet in public restrooms.
Then reality set in when I returned to work. Strike one against elimination communication. Next, my son began crawling, which resulted in an immediate loss of interest in remaining still. Strike two. Finally, once he started eating solid foods, it became clear that my elimination communication ambitions were in serious trouble.
With real food came a significant increase in messiness. My little one became a champion digester, producing countless diapers’ worth of waste daily, often without any warning. I found myself overwhelmed and eventually surrendered to the convenience of disposable diapers, grateful for the modern marvels of convenience.
Recently, a friend mentioned that her 13-month-old is fully potty trained due to successful elimination communication. My competitive spirit ignited, prompting me to dust off the BabyBjörn potty seat. I tried to recreate our earlier success, but my son was more interested in throwing it down the stairs than using it. Later attempts to distract him with books ended with him filling the potty with Legos instead.
The next morning, I reverted to my original method: holding him over the bathroom sink. The result? A chaotic scene where he flailed and ended up peeing all over me and the bathroom mirror. Not my finest moment.
After that, I attempted a third round of potty training, only to discover a mess on the kitchen floor while I was washing dishes. I calmly picked it up and strapped a diaper on him, only to be hit by a wave of distress as I started noticing a lingering odor of poop throughout the house. A thorough investigation revealed a trail of mess leading to various toys and even a corner of the carpet.
Needless to say, I’ve returned to the ease of disposable diapers and have a newfound respect for those women in Thailand who manage to navigate this journey with immense grace and resilience.
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In summary, while the journey of elimination communication may work for some, it’s not for everyone. Parenting is a unique experience, and sometimes, embracing the convenience of disposable options is the best choice for your family.
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