Dear Kids,
As I pen this letter, you’re still just little ones—18 months and 3 years old. Yet, it’s remarkable how quickly you’ve mastered the tablet, likely outpacing me! You belong to a generation enveloped in technology, where screens and gadgets are as commonplace as the air we breathe.
When I was your age, life was different. We didn’t have apps to entertain us. There were no smartphones or constant Wi-Fi at our fingertips. Our phones were tethered to the wall, and if we needed to reach someone while out, we relied on something called a “pay phone.”
The internet was a distant dream. We didn’t have Google or Siri to provide instant answers to our questions. If we were curious about something, we ventured to the library, wrestling with card catalogs and encyclopedias. It was a quest, not a quick search.
And GPS? Forget it! Navigating meant asking for directions or unfolding a giant paper map, which never folded back quite right.
I can’t predict what technology will look like by the time you’re reading this. Perhaps you’ll be too busy managing a robot uprising to notice this letter at all! But here are some important thoughts to consider about growing up in this age of instant gratification:
Unplug When Needed
There will always be time for phones, video games, and streaming services, but it’s essential to enjoy these things in moderation. Trust me, you won’t reminisce about your favorite social media post or how many likes it got. Focus on creating meaningful memories.
Prioritize Real Connections
With smartphones in every hand, I often see teens gathered together, yet they’re all glued to their screens, missing out on genuine interactions. It’s essential to engage in face-to-face conversations and practice making eye contact.
Manners Matter
Always treat others as you wish to be treated. A simple smile, politeness, and gratitude can make a world of difference. Remember to say “please” and “thank you.” Kindness goes a long way.
Don’t Hide Behind Anonymity
The internet can be a breeding ground for unkindness. People often say hurtful things from behind screens. A good rule of thumb is to never act poorly, whether online or in person.
Advocate for Yourself
Steer clear of toxic online spaces, like the comment sections that breed negativity. While standing up for yourself is important, learn to recognize which battles are worth engaging in.
Be Smart and Safe
Make decisions that will serve you well in the long run. Be cautious about what you share online—never send nude photos, as you never know where they might end up.
Read Often
If printed books still exist in your time, cherish them! Even when you’re not in the mood, read until you discover the book that sparks your love for literature. Once you find it, keep that passion alive.
Hone Your Writing Skills
In an age of emojis and text shortcuts, remember that effective communication relies on well-chosen words. Master spelling, grammar, and vocabulary if you want to be taken seriously. And for heaven’s sake, never write “u” instead of “you” outside of text messages.
Discover What Brings You Joy
Nurture your creativity—make time for music and art. Surround yourself with friends who inspire, support, and make you laugh.
Seek Adventures
Spend time outdoors and don’t settle for just viewing pictures of beautiful places; go explore them yourself. Get your hands dirty, connect with nature, and embrace the feeling of being small in a vast world.
While you can find answers at the touch of a button, I hope you never lose your sense of curiosity about life. Embrace firsthand experiences and stay present in every moment. Who knows, by the time you read this, teleportation or flying cars might be a reality, allowing you to explore even more of this incredible world.
With all my love,
Mom
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