What Happens When the Lovey Goes Missing

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One evening during my teenage years, I received a frantic phone call.

“Hello?”

“Hi! Do you know where Teddy is?” came a panicked voice. “Did you see it while you were here? Did you take it outside? It’s fine if you did; we just need to know. We can’t find Teddy, Emma. Where is Teddy?!”

This was the mother of the children I had babysat earlier that day. Teddy was the beloved lovey of one of those kids, and without it, she couldn’t settle down for the night. Back then, I couldn’t fully grasp the turmoil surrounding a lost lovey at bedtime. Sure, I felt a bit of sympathy for the parents and the little girl, but I thought it was somewhat silly for an adult to be so distressed over a missing stuffed animal.

Now that I’m a parent, I can assure you: the struggle is all too real. Losing that cherished lovey is no small matter, and here’s the ludicrous chaos that unfolds when it goes missing:

  1. You feel abandoned by the universe. You were so close to achieving the dream of getting the kids to bed. Just finish brushing their teeth, read a story, sing a song, then it’s adult time. But wait. The lovey—your lifeline—is gone. That blissful vision of peace and a glass of wine starts to fade, and despair creeps in as you begrudgingly head back downstairs to start the search.
  2. Your vision goes haywire. The lovey, which has spent countless hours being cuddled, drooled on, and dragged around, has become the color of everything and nothing all at once. No matter how wide you open your eyes, you can scour every surface without even realizing you’re staring right at it.
  3. You realize your child may adore the lovey more than you. They can drift off to sleep without you, but not without that scruffy piece of fabric. Fine, Teddy, you win. Why don’t you handle all the chores while you’re at it?!
  4. Frustration morphs into rage. This anger is infuriating because there’s no one to blame. You end up kicking over toys and yelling at inanimate objects, all while stomping around in search of that elusive lovey. If your partner checks a spot you’ve already looked, you snap, “I just checked there! It’s not there. It’s nowhere. GAAAHHH, THIS IS THE WORST!”
  5. You resort to desperate bargaining. “How about, just for tonight, for a super special treat, you get to sleep with the one and only… Sparkly Unicorn!” Your enthusiasm is over the top, and you try to animate the unicorn with jazz hands, but your child isn’t having it. You knew it wouldn’t work, but in your desperation, you had to try.
  6. You gather your troops for a rescue mission. You rally the kids with battle cries of “all hands on deck!” Your toddler rummages through the trash, helpfully reporting on the “Old toast! Something wet!” You might even wave another child’s lovey in front of your dog, urging him, “Go find it! Good boy!” But let’s be real; he’s more interested in lounging than actually helping.
  7. You eventually find the lovey. (You always do, eventually.) It might be tucked away in the most absurd place, like inside your rain boot or hidden in a toy box you kicked earlier. At that moment, you feel such relief that you collapse, barely having the energy to celebrate. You toss the lovey onto your child’s bed, turn off the lights, and plop down in exhaustion.

Now I truly understand the panic that mother felt when she called me all those years ago. My youthful indifference was unhelpful, and for that, I apologize. Because as any parent knows, a lost lovey is no laughing matter. For more insights on parenting and the rollercoaster of emotions that come with it, check out this article on intracervical insemination. If you’re considering starting a family, you might also want to explore the resources available at NICHD for pregnancy and home insemination. For those looking for a reliable source for at-home insemination kits, Cryobaby offers excellent products.

In summary, losing a lovey is a chaotic experience that every parent can relate to, filled with emotions that swing from frustration to desperation. It’s a moment that makes us appreciate those little comforts that bring our children joy.


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