When it comes to children’s products, we’ve already seen toys and even toothbrushes get the gendered treatment, but now it seems that discipline is also getting a color-coded makeover. Introducing: his and hers timeout chairs, ideal for parents who want to embrace outdated gender stereotypes while enforcing rules.
These timeout chairs, available through various online platforms like Facebook, Pinterest, and Etsy, come in vibrant shades of pink, blue, and sometimes even green. They often feature cringe-worthy poems that subtly remind kids of their so-called gender roles. The “boy” chair emphasizes the idea of raising boys to be “men” who must suppress their inherent “masculinity” to curb their supposed tendencies to kick, shout, and fight. Apparently, there’s a belief that little boys can’t control their “wild” impulses—who knew that was a given?
Conversely, the “girl” chair promotes traditional ideals, focusing on being sweet, ladylike, and not expressing dissatisfaction—because from a young age, girls are conditioned to believe that being assertive is a negative trait. There’s even a particularly nauseating version of the girl chair that pushes these sentiments even further.
While it’s not surprising that these chairs exist, it is shocking to see that people are actually purchasing them. One seller on Facebook has received numerous comments praising the chairs and asking about their price. On Pinterest, the chairs have gathered an impressive number of repins and shares, with moms even embarking on DIY projects to create their own versions. It begs the question: what happened to the days when timeout meant simply sitting on a plain stool, taking a few minutes on your bed, or having a serious talk at the kitchen table?
Research indicates that gendered toys and products can reinforce stereotypical beliefs about masculinity and femininity, leading to bullying based on perceived gender norms, and causing children to disengage from mixed-gender activities much earlier than necessary. Even if these gendered items may seem harmless, they contribute to the persistence of damaging stereotypes that our children will have to navigate throughout their lives. So why introduce this unnecessary baggage?
If we genuinely want to break down gender stereotypes and allow our children to flourish as well-rounded individuals, we must critically examine the products we choose to bring into our homes. A timeout chair can still serve its purpose without being adorned in sparkles or pastel colors. In fact, a simple, unembellished chair might be more effective, as it won’t appear to be a new toy. Timeouts should be opportunities for learning, but they shouldn’t come with a side of outdated sexism.
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In summary, while timeout chairs may come in pink and blue, it’s critical to reflect on the messages they send. Opting for a more neutral approach could encourage healthier perceptions of gender from an early age.
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