What Being Deeply In Love with Someone Truly Means

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When you’re in the early stages of dating someone, you might only catch glimpses of their quirks. Perhaps they have a habit of biting their nails when anxious or a peculiar taste in films. At this point, those little flaws seem charming—endearing components of a person you find irresistibly attractive.

However, the moment you fall head over heels in love, you begin to see the full spectrum of their personality, including those not-so-charming traits. Take my friend Sara, for instance; soon after she fell for Mark, she revealed her penchant for stealing blankets in the night like a wild animal. On the other hand, Mark discovered that his habit of leaving clothes scattered around the house was no longer a secret. The reality of love is that it’s messy, inconvenient, and sometimes downright irritating—much like that towel that never finds its way to the dryer.

Love is the laughter shared over silly impressions of one another, so intense that you nearly lose control. It’s those gloomy mornings when both of you would rather hibernate under the covers than face the world outside. Love is as simple as slipping into your favorite cozy sweater or finding that elusive parking spot at a busy grocery store on a Saturday.

Yet, love can also be incredibly challenging. It’s the stubbornness that leads to pointless arguments about who’s right and who should be doing the dishes. It’s about whipping up dinner, sometimes hastily heating leftovers to avoid a debate about food waste, and other times pouring your heart into a dish you think they’ll adore. It’s the joy of singing off-key, blissfully unaware of how awful you sound, and the relief you feel when you hear their car pulling into the driveway after a long day.

Love can make you feel self-righteous about the silliest things—like the proper way to fold paper towels or the temperature of the thermostat. It thrives on humor, sometimes inappropriate, that leaves you both in fits of giggles, even when the kids have no clue what’s so funny.

There will be times when you and your partner struggle to find your rhythm, feeling grumpy and distant despite being physically close. But even through those rough patches, you’ll find solace in a simple handhold that bridges the gap and reconnects you.

Love is about those little sacrifices—letting them have the bigger slice of cake or the juicier piece of chicken, not always but often enough. It’s an acute awareness of one another, reading their moods and unspoken thoughts like a well-worn book. Love means occasionally doing things you’d prefer to avoid, just to see them smile.

It’s knowing their dislikes, like how they can’t stand spaghetti, but still cooking it for the kids, with a side of chicken to please them. Love is raw and vulnerable. It’s about baring your soul after years together, and still believing when they tell you you’re beautiful. It’s making plans for the future, even as life throws surprises your way, including the chaos of children that transforms your world.

Ultimately, love is an ever-evolving journey filled with ups and downs, laughter and tears. It’s a complex tapestry of emotions that’s worth holding onto, even when the going gets tough. If you discover that elusive connection, cherish it; because even in the hardest moments, the ride is undeniably worthwhile.

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