How well are you really managing this school year? If I had to grade myself, I’d probably be sitting at a solid D+. But hey, I’m optimistic—I might drop to a 20% soon enough.
Just last week, I was the poster parent for organization. I had everything in place—my kids’ school items were neatly arranged. I’d set up bowls and spoons for cereal, along with fresh fruit like berries and bananas within arm’s reach. I even woke up 30 minutes early to brew my coffee and double-check any homework or permission slips that needed my attention. My “Mom” folder was meticulously labeled, containing school newsletters, carpool numbers, and a calendar tracking important dates.
After school, before the bus arrived at 4 p.m., I had snacks ready—wholesome fruit and cups of chilled water on the table. “Hang up your backpacks!” I chirped as the kids walked in. Shoes were promptly put away, and I even sorted through old school papers cluttering the counter.
Last week, I felt like I was embodying the ideal mom that Pinterest promised. Fast forward to this week, and I was jolted awake by a hungry child who decided to wake up 20 minutes later than usual because I forgot to set an alarm. In the rush after school, my kids devoured cookies and ham slices—snacks I had previously forbidden because they were “only for school.” The pile of papers on my counter? I have no idea what they’re for, but I’m pretty sure I need to sign at least 56 of them and return them, possibly along with a check or an agreement of servitude.
We haven’t even hit the peak of the school year, and I’m already losing my grip. By winter break, we’ll probably be counting with our toes, and by the end of the year, my kids might just survive on leftover holiday candy.
But you know what? I’m not ashamed. Shame is for those who have inflated views of themselves. I can’t help but wonder how I can be so motivated to organize and prepare in September, only to find myself overwhelmed and disheartened as October rolls around.
In previous years, I’ve tried all sorts of systems—moving backpacks from their hooks to dining chairs, hanging cork boards, and scheduling everything from unpacking backpacks (4 to 4:15 p.m.) to family reading time (right after dinner). Yet somehow, no matter the strategy, there’s always a homework assignment pulled out at 7:51 a.m. that I missed because we didn’t check the backpacks the night before. Spoiler alert: it was hiding under the porch.
Inevitably, someone has to run to the bathroom when we’re supposed to be reading together as a family—like a scene out of a Hallmark movie gone wrong. My kids are off to play with friends before I can even ask them if they have anything for me to sign. Their shoes are either under the couch or out in the driveway, and our dog? Yep, he’s munching on someone’s homework.
So really, it’s not just us; it’s them. The reason we struggle to keep our kids organized and maintain our sanity for more than a few weeks into the school year is simple: chaos is woven into the very fabric of their existence. Add in school fundraisers, flyers igniting random interests like trapeze lessons or combat chess club, the endless cycle of PTA volunteerism, and the need to shop for new sneakers because your kids have already outgrown the ones you bought just weeks ago, and it’s no surprise we can’t find a single pencil with an eraser.
We were never meant to win this game. We’re just trying to manage our losses and survive. Victory belongs to Pinterest and that one mom whose car is always spotless (may her children step in dog poop, amen). The rest of us need to put on our resigned faces and help little Timmy find the power cord for his laptop, which should be at the family charging station we set up back on Labor Day.
So, wear those rubber gloves and keep an extra pen and notepad in the car for those moments when you need to recreate a permission slip at the last possible second. After all, someone took the field trip form to the bathroom during reading time, and let’s just say your chances of getting that slip to the teacher tomorrow are looking pretty grim.
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In summary, managing the school year is a chaotic journey filled with ups and downs, and sometimes, survival is the best we can hope for.
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