Dear Military Wife,
As I sit down to write this, my heart goes out to you and your husband, who is serving in the United States Army and has just embarked on a year-long deployment. I understand the enormity of his sacrifice—leaving you and your two young children to uphold the values and freedoms we cherish in this country. However, I want to take a moment to honor you, the one who remains behind. While I can’t fully grasp the depth of your emotions, I want to share a few thoughts to remind you that you are not alone.
Today, I saw the photos you posted of your goodbye, which brought back a flood of memories from my own farewells. I can feel the ache in my chest and tears welling up as I write. Both my brother and my husband have served, and I know all too well what it’s like to be the one left behind during deployments.
Your strength during this time has been remarkable. I still remember the day we met at that Fourth of July gathering. It felt so apt to connect on a day when we celebrate independence, especially since your husband is heading off to preserve that very freedom. I vividly recall when my boyfriend, now my husband, left for Navy basic training. I was proud of him, yet felt an overwhelming sense of loneliness, even with friends and family around me. It was 1995, and I found comfort in wearing his band t-shirt for days on end.
Last week, you mentioned that your husband had his bags packed and lined up in the garage. That visual alone can make the reality of his departure hit hard. I remember a similar sight when my brother prepared for his time in the Marine Corps—those green bags were a sight I wished I could forget. Your description of your husband’s bags brought back that familiar weight of saying goodbye, one that never truly fades.
You invited me to your husband’s farewell party, where his mother had beautifully decorated the yard in red, white, and blue. The atmosphere was filled with laughter and love, and the pride was palpable. But I noticed the moment he thanked everyone for coming—his voice wavered, and tears welled in his eyes as you encouraged him from the crowd. I couldn’t help but reflect on the time years ago when I watched my husband depart for his submarine. The wind blew my hair across my face, mingling with the tears I couldn’t hold back.
I also saw your wedding photo last week. In just four years, you have built a life and family with your military spouse. I can only imagine how the upcoming deployment will cast a shadow over your anniversary, yet I know you’ll find strength in each other. My own wedding 13 years ago was bittersweet, as it felt like a send-off for my brother. I remember tossing the bouquet to his fiancée while sending silent prayers for his safe return.
You are just one of many military wives. Your journey is shared by countless others. To all military spouses, parents, siblings, children, and extended family—we stand together. We support you. And to those in uniform, we salute you. When you return, we’ll be there with banners waving in red, white, and blue.
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In closing, I want you to know that you are not alone. Your strength is inspiring, and your sacrifices do not go unnoticed.
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