As a mother of five and currently expecting my sixth, I can tell you that even though my bump isn’t obvious yet, I’m already bracing for the absurd remarks that tend to come my way whenever I step outside with my lively crew. With five kids and another on the way, I certainly don’t need the added stress of unsolicited commentary from strangers. Many fellow moms in similar situations share this sentiment, and we often swap stories about the frustrating comments we encounter.
So, the next time you come across a busy, pregnant mom managing several energetic children at the grocery store or anywhere else, think twice before saying the following:
1. “You must have your hands full!”
Yes, thank you for stating the obvious! While this comment seems harmless, it’s something we hear daily—often multiple times a day. It becomes tiresome, especially when it’s delivered every time we venture out with our kids, even if there are just a few of them with us.
2. “Don’t you know how that happens?”
Actually, we do. We’re educated women navigating parenthood in 2023. If you’re so inclined to share your insights, please do so in a way that doesn’t involve curious little ears.
3. “Are you planning to get fixed after this one?”
First of all, we’re not broken—our reproductive systems are functioning just fine, thank you. When it comes to our personal choices, they’re just that—personal. How about we agree: you don’t pry into my life, and I won’t ask about yours?
4. “Are you trying to overpopulate the planet?”
Not at all! We’re simply doing our part to ensure the future generation can take care of things—like your Social Security. You might even consider expressing gratitude for our contributions instead.
5. “How do you manage it all?”
Honestly, we have no idea. If we had a secret to keeping our sanity intact, we’d probably be penning a bestseller instead of managing a household filled with chaos. We take each day as it comes, and when we’re not busy with the kids, we might just enjoy a glass of wine!
So, what can you say to a pregnant mom of many that won’t make her want to roll her eyes? Here are a few suggestions:
- “What a lovely family you have!”
- “You look amazing!”
- “Can I offer you some chocolate?”
Or, simply share a kind smile. A gentle gesture can make all the difference. We appreciate those moments of quiet support, as they are few and far between.
For more insights on navigating pregnancy and parenting, check out this informative post from our blog on Cervical Insemination. If you’re considering at-home insemination options, Make a Mom offers reliable kits to assist you. Don’t forget to visit Medical News Today for more resources on fertility and pregnancy.
In summary, while it’s easy to slip into casual conversation about a pregnant mom’s situation, it’s essential to remember the challenges she may face. Choose your words wisely to offer support rather than stress.
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