Navigating the world as a working mom can often feel overwhelming, especially when striving for that elusive “having it all” standard while juggling countless responsibilities. When I transitioned from being a stay-at-home mom to re-entering the workforce, I quickly realized that I was facing a whole new set of challenges. Suddenly, I was managing drop-offs, pick-ups, babysitter schedules, and meal prep, and it felt like I was dropping the ball everywhere. My family’s dinners were subpar, I was consistently running late, and my work often felt rushed. Despite that, this shift has been rewarding, especially because I genuinely enjoy my job. It’s essential to remind ourselves that it’s perfectly fine to be a bit of a mess as a working mom. Here are six solid reasons why.
1. You Might Be More Capable Than You Realize
Ever dealt with “imposter syndrome”? Many women grapple with the feeling that they’re not as competent as others perceive them to be. This self-doubt can be overwhelming, but it’s important to remember that you’re probably doing just fine. Keep showing up and acting like the capable person you are.
2. Financial Contribution Matters
Even if you feel like you’re struggling, your job contributes to the family finances. As my friend Sarah says, “Don’t fire yourself!” There are plenty of folks in the workforce who might not be pulling their weight, so don’t underestimate your value. Your paycheck is well-deserved, so continue to cash it.
3. Your Skills Are Still Sharp
Even if you feel out of touch, you’re still picking up valuable skills just by being in the workplace. I vividly recall my first day back at a job after a long break, and how nervous I was about using basic technology. But, as it turned out, the new tools weren’t as foreign as I thought. Being immersed in the work environment allows you to adapt and learn without even realizing it.
4. You’re Building Valuable Connections
While I cherished my time as a stay-at-home mom and made great friends, the workplace offers a chance to meet a diverse array of people. Networking in your profession not only boosts your career but also contributes positively to your mental well-being.
5. Action is Key to Clarity
I spent too long out of the workforce because I was unsure of my next steps. However, part of figuring things out is simply taking action. You won’t find the perfect path by sitting idle; instead, you learn and grow through experience.
6. Perfection Isn’t the Aim
We all want fulfilling, joyful lives, but that doesn’t mean everything has to be perfect. It’s okay to embrace a life that’s good enough, with all its chaos and imperfections. I’d gladly choose a colorful, albeit messy life over a perfect but dull one.
In conclusion, it’s vital to remember that being a working mom isn’t about achieving perfection; it’s about embracing your journey and recognizing that you’re doing your best. If you’re looking for more insights on this topic, check out this blog post for additional support. And if you’re considering home insemination as part of your journey, you can find reliable resources at Cleveland Clinic and explore options from Make a Mom.
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