A common sentiment I’ve been noticing among new moms in my circle and across social media is the hashtag #staylittle. Phrases like “it all goes so fast” or “you’ll never get this time back” pop up frequently. While they’re absolutely right—time does seem to slip away quickly, and those moments are irreplaceable—what they don’t often mention is the treasure trove of new memories waiting to be made.
Don’t get me wrong; I cherished every second with my wide-eyed, cooing baby nestled against my chest. I shed tears while packing away her tiny newborn outfits. I even wished she could stay that little forever. But let’s be real: if she did, I’d be living a life of mashing bananas and toting around diapers indefinitely.
So here’s my honest take, little one: I don’t miss the baby stage—not even a little. Yes, I’d relive those days in a heartbeat, but the sleepless nights and endless bottles to wash? Not so much. And let’s not forget the struggle of shielding you from the sun during your first summer because you were too young for SPF.
I also don’t miss worrying about your fragile little bones every time someone new held you, afraid they wouldn’t support your head properly. Instead, I revel in watching you grow stronger—your sturdy neck, your arms that embrace me, your legs that dash around and tackle playground challenges like a champ. I beam with pride as you twirl in ballet class or conquer the monkey bars.
Those desperate, helpless cries for food? Not a fan. What I love now is hearing your sweet voice stand at the fridge and ask for “milk, please.” It’s a joy to watch you evolve into a clever, funny, chatty little person with a vivid imagination and blossoming independence.
I promise I’m not rushing through the present. I’m fully immersed in the beautiful innocence of today while eagerly anticipating everything that lies ahead. I want to be the mom cheering you on at after-school activities, sharing heart-to-heart conversations over steaming hot chocolate topped with fluffy marshmallows.
I can’t wait to take you to movies, witness your first roller coaster ride, enjoy manicures together, and bond over long lunches as you excitedly share stories about your latest crush. Your sweet newborn aroma is forever etched in my memory, but each phase of your childhood brings fresh challenges and opportunities I wouldn’t trade for the world.
Every step of this journey fills my heart with joy, and I’ll be here with open arms to embrace the ever-evolving, flourishing you. Because while babies don’t keep, the love we share will last a lifetime.
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In summary, while I hold dear the memories of your baby days, I find immense joy in watching you grow and thrive. Each new stage brings its own set of delights and adventures that I eagerly anticipate.
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