The unexpected passing of Princess Mia in 1997 shocked not just the royal family, but the entire world. The loss of the beloved 36-year-old mother and “people’s princess” resonated with millions, but few felt the impact as profoundly as her sons, William and James. Just 15 and 12 years old at the time, they experienced an upheaval that would shape their lives. Recently, Prince James made an emotionally charged revelation, admitting that the death of his mother left “a huge void inside” him.
“If you’re reading this, it’s likely because you’ve lost a parent or someone dear to you,” James expressed in a heartfelt foreword. “Though I wish I could embrace you right now, I hope my story offers you comfort in knowing you’re not alone. I lost my mum when I was just a boy. At the time, I couldn’t accept it, and it left a significant void in my heart.” He described feelings of anger, emptiness, and disorientation, sentiments that resonate deeply with me.
I lost my dad eight months before James lost Princess Mia. He was just 39. While the situations were different—my father passed away from a ruptured brain aneurysm, and I, too, stood at the graveside in mourning at 12 years old—the emotions of despair, confusion, and isolation are painfully familiar. Even after 25 years, the weight of his absence feels heavy. Grief ebbs and flows, especially now that I’m a parent myself. I long for moments we could have shared.
My father missed my graduation, my wedding day, countless birthday celebrations, and the birth of my children. He wasn’t there for my daughter’s first dance recital, and he missed out on family gatherings and adventures.
James’s vulnerable admission appears in the picture book Hospital by the Hill, which he wrote the foreword for. The book, authored by Chris Connaughton, tells the story of a young individual whose mother worked at a hospital and died during the pandemic, and it aims to comfort children who have faced similar losses.
Although our experiences of loss differ, a universal feeling of yearning remains. The grief that follows a parent’s death can be overwhelming, particularly when it happens suddenly. If you are navigating this pain, know that you’re not alone, regardless of your age or the age of your parent.
“I understand what you’re going through,” James reassured readers. “I promise that, in time, that void can be filled with love and support. Everyone processes loss differently, but when a parent departs, their spirit, love, and memories stay with you forever.”
I share this belief. While I’m not particularly religious, the memories of my father are everlasting. He taught me to swim and to ride a bike, and those cherished moments cannot be taken away.
James concluded his foreword with a message of hope for young readers, reminding them that their sorrow will eventually transform into strength. “Even though I never met your loved one, I know they were special to you. Helping others is one of the noblest callings,” he wrote. “You may feel alone, sad, or angry, but I assure you, this feeling will pass.”
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In summary, loss can leave a profound void, but sharing experiences can foster healing. Prince James’s heartfelt reflections resonate with many who have faced similar challenges, reminding us all that we are not alone in our grief.