I’ve put on almost 30 pounds over the past year, and while it seems like many people are in the same boat, I can’t shake the feeling of self-consciousness. With summer around the corner and most of my friends and family vaccinated, I’m anxious about reconnecting and them noticing my body transformation. My sister-in-law has pointed out my weight gain and has been pushing me to join her exercise boot camp and try her MLM diet food, which makes me dread seeing everyone even more. Is it okay to just hide away and avoid social gatherings?
Well, dear reader, you have every right to choose what feels best for you. And honestly, your sister-in-law sounds quite inconsiderate.
Embracing Your Journey
Here’s something important to keep in mind: our bodies have carried us through a challenging pandemic. Many of us turned to cooking, baking, and snacking as a way to cope with the stress of isolation. How you and your body chose to navigate this difficult time is entirely personal.
The people who truly care about you won’t focus on your weight at any time in your life. Anyone who feels entitled to comment on someone else’s body has their own issues to deal with, and I’m sorry that your sister-in-law has hurt you with her remarks. (Seriously, I can’t understand why anyone would consider MLM diet products a solution.)
Your Body Deserves Joy
Your body deserves to enjoy summer. It should be able to wear whatever makes you feel good, be nourished in ways that uplift you, and engage in activities that bring you joy. You deserve all of this, always, but particularly now.
This past year has been incredibly tough for countless individuals. You made it through! Your body played a crucial role in that journey. If you’re struggling to accept your changing body (and let’s be honest, it’s a continuous journey for many), at least acknowledge the strength you’ve shown. I’m wishing you love, happiness, and all the colorful swimsuits and tops you desire. (And maybe a swift kick to your sister-in-law’s boot camp!)
Further Reading
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Summary
The letter discusses feelings of self-consciousness due to pandemic weight gain and anxiety about summer social gatherings. The response emphasizes self-acceptance and highlights the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive people. It reassures the reader that their body is deserving of love and joy, regardless of its changes during a challenging time.
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