On March 25, major news outlets reported on New Zealand’s new legislation that provides three days of paid leave for women and their partners following a miscarriage or stillbirth. Many celebrated this milestone as a significant acknowledgment of the emotional and physical toll of pregnancy loss. Ginny Thompson, the Parliament member who championed the bill, stated, “This legislation offers women and their partners time to grieve without depleting their sick leave. Grief is not an illness; it’s a profound loss that requires time to process.”
Having experienced four pregnancy losses myself, I understand the urgency of this recognition. After each loss, I returned to work hastily, having exhausted my sick leave and still feeling unprepared emotionally and physically.
Statistics indicate that one in four pregnancies end in loss, suggesting that within a workplace of hundreds, at least one woman is likely navigating this painful experience at any given moment. My own journey included two ectopic pregnancies, one of which necessitated emergency surgery, and a second-trimester loss that resulted in significant trauma.
Research highlights the psychological impact of such losses, with nearly 30% of women who experienced early miscarriage reporting post-traumatic stress just one month later. The emotional aftermath can include anxiety, depression, and feelings of guilt and failure.
Given this context, I find the three days of leave provided by New Zealand’s bill woefully inadequate. It is simply not enough time to process the loss of a child, recover from surgery, or prepare for a memorial.
While some may argue that three days is better than nothing—similar to the limited six weeks of maternity leave—we must strive for more substantial support. Some countries, like India and Vietnam, offer significantly longer leave periods, recognizing the need for proper time to heal.
The absence of such policies in the U.S. raises questions about our commitment to women’s health and well-being. It’s time for legislators to step up and do better for women and their partners facing the heartache of losing a child and the dreams associated with that loss.
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In summary, while New Zealand’s new legislation is a step forward, it ultimately falls short in providing adequate support for those dealing with the loss of a pregnancy. We need more comprehensive policies that truly recognize the complexity of grief and the healing process.