This week’s question revolves around the dilemma of vaccine eligibility and feelings of guilt. What should you do if you qualify for the vaccine but believe others may need it more? Should you go ahead and schedule your appointment, or should you wait until it’s open for everyone?
Dear Home Insemination Kit,
I just found out that I’m eligible to receive the COVID vaccine because of my job, but I’m feeling hesitant. I’m excited about getting vaccinated (thank goodness for science!), but I worry that there are others who might need it more than I do since I’m relatively healthy and have no pre-existing conditions. Should I go ahead and get the vaccine now or wait a few months until it’s available to everyone?
Let me be blunt: GET THE VACCINE NOW.
I understand your confusion. I work in an area that will soon be eligible for vaccination, and even though I primarily work from home and am in good health, I’ve grappled with whether to get the vaccine as soon as I can or to hold off for the general population.
Here’s the thing: The system is far from perfect, but opting out of getting vaccinated when eligible doesn’t correct the issues within it. It doesn’t guarantee that the vaccine will go to someone who is in greater need. You won’t earn any bonus points for letting others go first; instead, you may unintentionally put yourself and others at risk.
By getting vaccinated as soon as it’s available to you, you’re contributing to the larger goal of protecting those who aren’t yet eligible.
If you’re still feeling conflicted, consider volunteering to help others navigate the often confusing scheduling process for vaccine appointments. You might also lend a hand at local food pantries or assist at your children’s schools—because let’s be honest, teachers could really use some support right now. You can also advocate for vaccine safety or provide transportation for those who lack it.
But seriously, get vaccinated.
I know there are critics. Recently, a discussion in a Facebook group I’m in got heated because someone mentioned they qualified for the vaccine by volunteering at a food pantry. It’s absurd to attack those trying to help.
Ultimately, while the system is chaotic and flawed, every vaccine administered helps us all. Unless you’re misrepresenting your situation just to qualify (in which case, let’s hope karma catches up with you), there’s no reason to feel guilty. Just a little envy maybe, but definitely no judgment.
So, roll up your sleeve, receive that shot, and shake off any guilt you may feel.
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