As we approach the anniversary of our lives being transformed by the pandemic, many of us have become all too familiar with Zoom—whether it’s for remote learning, therapy sessions, or family gatherings. In my household, we’ve experienced Zoom birthday parties, virtual check-ins with grandparents, and even holiday celebrations, but let’s be honest: getting young children to stay engaged during these online meetings can feel like a Herculean task.
For instance, my eight-year-old often gets distracted, pacing the kitchen while discussing his latest Fortnite achievements, completely oblivious to his teacher’s instructions. Meanwhile, my out-of-state relatives eagerly await a glimpse of their grandchildren, only to be met with bouts of sibling squabbles and wild energy that derail the conversation as soon as they ask about the kids’ day.
And then there are the younger ones, who struggle to grasp the concept of screen time with their loved ones. My three-year-old nephew, for example, will only respond if he is called “Super Cat” and will only sit still as long as he’s munching on a snack. Once the snack is gone, so is his attention! My sister’s kindergarten daughter has even attempted to change outfits mid-Zoom session, leaving her grandfather wondering where she went.
The reality is that keeping younger kids focused on Zoom is a significant challenge. Their attention spans are short, and their natural curiosity often leads them to wander off, leaving family members feeling neglected. As parents, we find ourselves in a tough position—either chasing after them, bribing them with toys, or simply apologizing to relatives for their lack of focus.
With COVID-19 still rampant in many areas and slow vaccine distribution, Zoom remains a primary way for families to connect. Parents have limited options: they can either try to keep their children engaged or admit defeat and seek alternative methods of communication.
In an insightful piece for Wired Magazine, an experienced preschool teacher shared useful tips for engaging little ones on Zoom. Her main piece of advice? Encourage movement. Instead of traditional sit-down chats, try hosting a dance party or a scavenger hunt around the house. You could also share a virtual book and read together, making the experience more dynamic and interactive.
Alternatively, it might be worth considering a break from Zoom altogether. As suggested in a parenting column on Slate, it’s perfectly acceptable to explain to family members that while you value their connection, Zoom simply isn’t working for your child. Instead, think about sending photos or even letting your child text them—because in the end, it’s those small connections that truly matter.
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Summary
Engaging young children during Zoom meetings can be a daunting task for parents, especially during the ongoing pandemic. As kids often lose interest or become distracted, parents must find creative ways to maintain their attention or consider alternatives to virtual communication.
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