As a thirteen-year-old who identifies as a transgender boy, I’ve navigated a complex online world that often feels more hostile than the real world. While remote learning has its challenges, it’s also been a way for me to express my identity and connect with others, primarily through platforms like Roblox. This game, which hosts a variety of mini-games, is played by a significant number of children in the U.S. However, it’s not always viewed as “cool,” leading many kids my age to deny their participation even when they engage.
My sister and I often find ourselves pleading for our chore money to buy Robux, which allows us to create avatars that resonate with our true selves. As a gay, trans boy, my character sometimes confuses others or draws negative attention. Although Roblox has measures to filter hate speech, bullies often find ways to communicate their disdain.
Throughout my time on these platforms, I’ve encountered various types of trolls. Some adopt religious avatars and use their platforms to spread messages of hate, particularly towards LGBTQ+ individuals. Others promote racism and transphobia, making the online landscape a challenging space for someone like me. I’ve faced more online hostility than I ever have in person, and I believe parents would be shocked if they spent time in the same Roblox servers their children frequent. They would quickly encounter the hateful messages that are prevalent.
Despite the negativity, I’ve built a support network of friends online, many of whom are also part of the LGBTQ+ community, while others are straight allies. The beauty of the virtual world is that when faced with bullies, I can easily leave the server.
Through Roblox, I even met my boyfriend, who speaks Spanish. Our relationship was meaningful and helped me improve my language skills, which now benefit my schoolwork.
This year has had its ups and downs, but I’m grateful for the online connections I’ve made. I co-authored a children’s book about coming out as transgender, which was released last August after years of hard work. Our efforts to promote it faced hurdles due to the pandemic, but we persevered through virtual events.
The pandemic has imposed limits, but I’m fortunate to have a supportive family. Many of my friends don’t have the same support at home and are afraid to come out. I eagerly anticipate returning to in-person school and engaging in LGBTQ+ advocacy again, sharing my experiences with younger students.
As we all hope for a return to normalcy, I remain active online, fostering connections and sharing my journey. For further insights into LGBTQ+ experiences and home insemination, check out this blog post. Additionally, if you’re looking for reliable resources on pregnancy and home insemination, Science Daily offers excellent information.
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In summary, being a trans teen in today’s digital age presents unique challenges, especially concerning online bullying. While there are obstacles, building supportive relationships online and advocating for LGBTQ+ rights can be empowering. As I look forward to returning to in-person activities, I hope for a more accepting world for all.