Parenting can be a challenging journey, especially during these unprecedented times. This week, we tackle a concern about navigating playdates in a pandemic when friends seem unwilling to prioritize safety measures like mask-wearing.
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I have a tight-knit group of mom friends that I’ve known for five years since our kids were in daycare together. We’ve supported each other through a lot, but the pandemic has made me rethink some of these friendships. They are completely okay with indoor playdates, despite not really having a secure “bubble,” while I feel strongly about masking up and keeping our gatherings brief and distant. They give me a hard time about it, acting as if I’m accusing them of being “unclean” or something. It’s frustrating, and I’ve even suggested outdoor get-togethers since the winter has been mild, but they are dismissive about masks, claiming that being outside means there’s no risk. I’m feeling so much anxiety about this whole situation, and I don’t know how to address it with them.
The past year has changed our perspectives in many ways, revealing truths about ourselves and our relationships. It’s tough to accept, especially when friends react defensively to reasonable health precautions. Wearing a mask is a simple yet effective way to protect ourselves and others, especially when enjoying social activities.
It’s disappointing when parents balk at the idea of their kids wearing masks to engage in safe play, especially when they can wear them at stores or school. A helpful approach might be to say, “I understand your feelings, but for little Jamie to play safely with friends, it’s important we all wear masks.” If they refuse to compromise or continue to criticize you during a time when safety is paramount, it may be a sign to reevaluate those friendships.
It’s a tough pill to swallow, but prioritizing your child’s safety is what matters most. Remember, you deserve a support system that respects your concerns.
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In summary, it’s crucial to prioritize your child’s safety and communicate your needs clearly to your friends. If they are unwilling to meet you halfway, it might be time to consider seeking out friendships that align more closely with your values and concerns.