As we step into a new year, many people feel the urge to set resolutions. However, this year, I’m opting out of that tradition. After setting ambitious goals in 2020 and achieving none, I found myself becoming the most cynical and intolerant version of myself. So, I’m skipping the lofty ambitions for now. Instead, I’m open to embracing practical advice. Who knows what 2021 has in store for us, but having positive guiding words might help us navigate through whatever chaos comes our way.
In that spirit, I reached out on social media for the best pieces of advice people have received. Here are some gems that I plan to tape to my bathroom mirror:
- “When your joys are simple, no one can take your happiness.” — Mia T., Florida
- “Everything improves with a fresh morning perspective.” — Jamie L., Indiana
- “Don’t borrow trouble.” Focus on today instead of worrying about future problems. — Sarah P., New York
- “Prioritize loving yourself first.” — Ava R., Wisconsin
- “Some people are just toxic, and we don’t need to excuse their behavior.” — Chloe S., North Carolina
- “Be courageous, and the universe will support you.” — Jordan T., Ohio
- “Learn and appreciate who you are; your relationship with yourself lasts a lifetime.” — Zoe B., Michigan
- “Never pass on the chance to use the restroom.” — Clara W., Florida
- “Form your own opinions and don’t just follow the crowd.” — Alex N., South Africa
- “It’s okay to err; just ensure you learn from your mistakes.” — Lisa G., Texas
- “Don’t stoop to their level.” My mom always reminded me to maintain my integrity despite others’ actions. — Rachael J., Florida
- “God makes new babies tough enough to survive their new parents.” — Josh K., South Carolina
- “Avoid marrying someone you feel you need to ‘fix’.” This applies to everyone, regardless of gender. — Abbie G., North Carolina
- “Not everyone thinks like you; it’s a simple yet powerful realization.” — Casey M., Florida
- “Taking action always puts you ahead of those who do nothing.” — Val R., South Carolina
- “Visit the dentist twice a year.” — Jennifer G., New Jersey
- “A mantra I live by: ‘Now what will you do?’” My mom taught me this when I was 19 and facing challenges as a single parent. It reminded me to take charge of my life instead of feeling sorry for myself. — Jamie H., New York
- “Apologize to your kids when you’re wrong.” — Rachel A., Texas
- “Don’t be a coulda-woulda-shoulda kid.” — Sophie M., Florida
- “This too shall pass.” It helps during tough times and reminds us that good moments are fleeting too. — Evan O., Florida
- “In a divorce, remember possessions are just things.” — Jennifer S., Hawaii
- “Children grow not because of us, but in spite of us.” — Courtney C., Wisconsin
- “Indecision is still a choice.” — Mary Katherine, Florida
- “Cat lovers and dog lovers can coexist, but non-pet lovers struggle with pet lovers.” — Sarah P., New York
- “What others think of you isn’t your concern.” — Christine S., Florida
- “Everyone will have an opinion about you; it’s up to you to decide its value.” — Virginia D., Pennsylvania
- “We focus on the journey, not the outcomes.” — Janelle H., Netherlands
- “Do something positive for yourself every day.” It boosts self-esteem and helps you center amidst chaos. — Lily R., Massachusetts
- “It’s okay to go to bed angry.” Rest can provide clarity. — MyLove M.B., Mississippi
- “If you’re going to dream, dream big.” — Jeanne L.B., Illinois
- “You get two families: the one you’re born into and the one you create.” — Kathy D., Illinois
- “Never assume; always ask.” — Chitra M., Doha, Qatar
- “Sometimes you have to listen to your mind over your heart.” — Elva T., Texas
- “In dealing with teens, maintain control and never escalate to physical confrontation.” — Sinéad C., Ireland
- “Life isn’t the timeline you imagined at 18. Evaluate your progress periodically.” — Marlie G.E., Canada
- “Treat others how you wish to be treated.” — Dana S.C., Florida
- “Sometimes darkness reveals the light.” — Mariah Y., Vermont
- “Let your children experience failure to teach them resilience.” — Maria M., Illinois
- “You don’t need to believe in God, but have faith in something greater than yourself.” — Jordin E.H., Colorado
- “Just be yourself and ignore the critics.” — Jennifer T., Tennessee
- “Don’t forget to breathe.” — Tricia S., California, from our NICU nurses
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Summary
In 2021, I’m choosing to focus on practical advice rather than setting unattainable goals. I gathered wisdom from various individuals on social media, compiling a list of insightful quotes and lessons to tape to my bathroom mirror. These pieces of advice encourage self-love, resilience, and a healthy perspective on life.
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