The reality is that many couples aren’t weathering this quarantine by baking treats or picking up new hobbies. Instead, a lot of us are feeling more frustrated than ever, and throwing silent gestures behind our partner’s backs. Let’s be honest: we’re overstimulated, craving personal space, and hearing our partners’ names way too often. What we really want is some peace and quiet—and for our partners to stop getting on our nerves.
Facing an unexpected upheaval in our routines and being cooped up at home for months on end is challenging. I certainly didn’t anticipate spending every waking moment with my significant other. This excessive amount of “quality time” can lead to frustration over the small things that we usually overlook.
My family and I have been in some form of quarantine for nearly 300 days now—300 DAYS! This was meant to last just two weeks. To say I’m feeling a bit stir-crazy is an understatement. Even with a vaccine on the horizon, we still have more days of quarantine ahead.
I genuinely enjoy my partner’s company. We have fun together, even during quiet moments. However, I’ve spent more time with him this year than in the last two decades combined. I can’t honestly say I’ve cherished every moment of our time together. I’ll admit, I’ve fantasized about giving him a playful nudge more than once.
There was a period last summer when we weren’t really speaking to each other. He was dealing with the stress of unemployment and injuries, while I was juggling four kids and managing the household. I was on the verge of losing my cool. I honestly thought one of us might need to move out for our marriage to survive this pandemic. Thankfully, when he returned to work in September, things started to feel more normal, and we regained our space.
No matter how solid your relationship was before the pandemic, chances are you’ve hit a point of annoyance during this time. So, if you’ve felt anything from mild irritation to extreme frustration with your partner, welcome to the club. There’s nothing that tests a marriage quite like being in each other’s space 24/7. This year has certainly put the resilience of every couple to the test, even those who seem perfect on the outside.
In a private mom group I belong to, I was overwhelmed by the number of complaints about partners. Some were as trivial as not being able to stand the sound of their partner breathing, while others revolved around deeper issues like depression and strained relationships. Most were about those everyday annoyances we typically brush off. One mom shared how the sound of her spouse chewing made her not want to share a room with him. Another was frustrated by the little “gifts” of dirty socks and empty water bottles left around the house.
Numerous moms noted how their partners seemed oblivious to the chaos erupting with the kids, either disappearing or glued to their phones while ignoring the madness. One mom expressed her frustration at lying awake while her husband snored peacefully, as she mentally organized her to-do list.
These small irritations that usually go unnoticed can quickly push one to the brink. They can make you imagine what it would be like to silence that snoring husband with a pillow—just a lighthearted thought, of course! It’s perfectly normal to feel this way after so much time spent together.
While I recognize that many are facing more serious issues, it’s important to acknowledge that venting about minor annoyances is valid, too. If you find yourself tidying up while your partner hides in the bathroom for an extended break, rest assured you’re not alone. Everyone is trying to cope with significant changes in their daily lives, and it’s no surprise that many couples are feeling the strain of constant togetherness.
So, if your marriage is being tested during this unprecedented time, know that you’re among many who are navigating similar challenges.
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During quarantine, many couples are struggling with increased irritation towards each other due to constant togetherness. This article discusses the frustrations that arise from being confined at home with a partner and highlights the importance of recognizing and addressing these feelings. It reassures readers that they are not alone in their experiences and provides links to helpful resources on home insemination.