Ah, the Christmas season—a time of wonder and joy. But let’s be real, it’s the moms who sprinkle the magic dust around. If we don’t do it, who will? This sentiment was hilariously captured in a recent viral SNL sketch about “Mom’s Christmas,” resonating with mothers everywhere.
We’re running ourselves ragged shopping for our kids, partners, parents, in-laws, neighbors, teachers… you name it. Come Christmas morning, what do we get? One solitary gift—probably the slippers we picked out and emailed to our spouse. Thanks, family, for hitting “add to cart” once. #SoBlessed.
If you’re feeling worn out and frustrated that no one goes the extra mile to make you feel special, you’re definitely not alone. It’s a common feeling among moms.
So, a little note to all kids and partners reading this: Next year, please DO better than just a robe. How about getting the house cleaned up (or better yet, do it yourself!), some lovely Christmas decorations, or a fun pair of boots? Maybe a cute scarf or a coffee mug that says “You’re an amazing mom”?
Make her feel as cherished as she makes everyone else feel. She deserves it.
Confessions from Moms
Confession #1: “Another Christmas where my partner gets me nothing, just like my birthday, because he’s too busy. Can’t even manage to be a decent human while taking a nap! This is why I’m losing feelings for you, you selfish jerk.”
Confession #2: “There are tons of gifts under the tree, but only one is from my mom. I’m terrified my husband will ‘forget’ again and I’ll end up crying in front of the kids.”
Confession #3: “My husband sent me a picture of a hair tool I wanted, but he never actually buys me anything for Christmas or my birthday. I watch everyone else open gifts while I get nothing. It’s so disheartening.”
Confession #4: “He said not to expect wrapped gifts because he’s too busy saving the world from monsters in video games. Priorities, right?”
If you’re not putting any effort into your wife’s Christmas, expect to be labeled a “jerk.”
Confession #5: “My partner casually mentioned his sister and her kids might stop by for dessert, but last time they just barged in before dinner and made a mess. Ugh!”
Confession #6: “I asked my husband to help set up the Christmas tree. He just yelled at the kids and ruined the whole mood. Now, no one wants to do anything. Probably just wanted to sneak off to watch football.”
Confession #7: “He got me a salad spinner for Christmas, but his parents got me the same thing for my birthday. Now he’s mad at me for ruining his surprise. I didn’t even want one!”
Confession #8: “I’m exhausted from carrying the mental load in our marriage. Christmas is supposed to be magical, but it feels like everyone just enjoys my hard work.”
There’s so much more to Christmas than just clicking “add to cart.” Help her hang the lights that bring her joy, tidy up the house, cook a meal, or do a load of laundry. And please, don’t create more work by inviting unexpected guests! Can’t you see how tired she is?
Confession #9: “I’m pretty sure we’re not getting Christmas bonuses this year. I’ve worked my tail off through quarantine, and it’s just frustrating.”
Confession #10: “Christmas hasn’t been enjoyable for me in about two decades. It’s just more responsibilities stacked on top of an already full plate.”
Confession #11: “I’ve always been the happiness backbone during the holidays, but this year, I can’t do it.”
Confession #12: “I’m over Christmas. It feels like I buy the same things every year. They love it for a moment, but then it’s tossed aside. It’s just pointless.”
The reality is, moms are weary of pouring their hearts into everything without receiving appreciation in return. We can’t be everyone’s “happiness backbone,” especially this year.
Confession #13: “I’m not picky, but I wish my partner wouldn’t buy all my gifts from thrift stores.”
Confession #14: “I asked for one thing for Christmas: help cleaning the house. I’ve been saying this for years, and I’m still drowning in clutter.”
Confession #15: “All I want for Christmas is a maid and a personal chef. Is that too much to ask?”
Confession #16: “I just want someone in this house to lift a finger to help with cooking, cleaning, and keeping things running.”
We don’t ask for much. We know you can’t hire a maid and chef, but can you lend a hand? Encourage the kids to pitch in. Maybe treat her to a one-time cleaning service to spruce up the house. You’ll truly make her day.
Honestly, it doesn’t take much to show a mom she is valued. A cozy new sweater, warm socks, or a day of peace to enjoy her favorite book can go a long way. But when nothing gets done and no one helps, it hurts. It turns Christmas into something we dread. We want to keep spreading joy, so can someone sprinkle a little magic our way too?
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Summary:
Moms often feel overwhelmed and underappreciated during Christmas. They put in endless effort to create a magical holiday but frequently receive little recognition for their hard work. It’s crucial for family members to step up, help with chores, and give thoughtful gifts to show their appreciation. Simple gestures can make a big difference in how moms feel during this festive season.