If you’re concerned that your young child may be on the autism spectrum, you’re not alone. It’s common for parents to notice that their child may not be communicating as expected, may not respond when spoken to, or may exhibit frustration through tantrums that seem atypical for their age.
Like many parents, I understand the anxiety that comes with such concerns. I first suspected my son might be neurodiverse when he was about eighteen months old, and it wasn’t until he was nearly three that we received a formal diagnosis.
The feelings of uncertainty can be overwhelming. You want your child to thrive and be happy, but navigating autism can feel daunting, especially when resources can seem out of reach.
Take a deep breath; there are concrete steps you can take.
Recognizing Early Signs
Dr. Amanda Fields, a practicing pediatrician and specialist in developmental disorders, emphasizes that parents can often spot signs of autism as early as fourteen to eighteen months. “Children may struggle with receptive language,” she explains, noting that they might not engage with parents by pointing or bringing objects for sharing. Increased tantrums can also indicate frustration, as children who cannot communicate their needs may act out.
Advocating for Your Child
If your pediatrician suggests a “wait and see” approach, remember that you have the power to advocate for your child’s needs through Early Intervention programs. Dr. Fields points out that every county has an early intervention program for children under three, and parents can initiate evaluations without waiting for a referral.
Consider looking into local Help Me Grow programs, which assess children’s developmental needs and can be a great resource for families. These programs are available in many areas but may not be accessible nationwide.
Understanding Educational Rights
If your child is over three, they fall under the education system’s jurisdiction. Thanks to historical advocacy, children with autism are entitled to a free and appropriate education under the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA). If you believe your child requires special education services, it’s crucial to submit a written request for a child study to the school.
Building a Supportive Community
Finding a supportive community is also essential. Seek out local advocacy groups for families with autistic children, or connect with other parents who understand your journey. They can provide valuable resources, support, and advice as you navigate this path.
The Importance of Early Intervention
Receiving a diagnosis is not a label but a gateway to your child’s potential. With early intervention, many children can significantly improve their communication skills and social interactions. Research shows that timely therapeutic support can lead to positive outcomes, with a considerable number of children not meeting the criteria for autism by kindergarten.
Next Steps
If your child is showing signs of autism and you’re unsure how to proceed, remember that your pediatrician is your first point of contact. But also know that you are in control of your child’s path and can seek help proactively.
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Summary:
Identifying autism in young children can be an emotional journey for parents. Early signs may include communication challenges and unusual behaviors. Parents have the right to seek evaluations through local Early Intervention programs, and if their child is over three, they can request a child study from schools under IDEA. Building a supportive community and understanding that a diagnosis is a step forward can empower parents to help their children thrive.