Labor and delivery can be harrowing experiences, and many mothers face trauma surrounding the birth of their children. Research from the Prevention and Treatment of Traumatic Childbirth (PATTCH) indicates that between 25-34% of women report their births as traumatic. In our Confessional, numerous moms sought a space to express their feelings and share experiences that ranged from deeply frightening to simply feeling unheard by medical professionals.
Personal Reflections
One mother reflected on her experience, saying, “It’s been over 7 years, but I still want to give a big shoutout to the nurse who told me, ‘don’t scream’ and an even bigger one to the doctor who couldn’t get my epidural right.“
Another shared her conflicting feelings about expanding her family: “Part of me wants a second child; another part knows I can’t endure that kind of labor again or the lack of support during recovery.“
One mom recounted a traumatic experience: “I suffered from severe tearing during my first delivery and now deal with ongoing health issues. My partner insists on having another baby, but I am firm—there will never be another child from my body!“
The Struggle for Advocacy
The struggle to advocate for oneself during labor can be immense, and it shouldn’t be necessary. Unfortunately, medical professionals can sometimes become desensitized to the anxieties and difficulties faced by expectant parents.
One mother expressed how her traumatic delivery experience affected her views on pregnancy, stating, “While I’ve always been pro-choice, my PTSD from childbirth has made me even more so.“
The high maternal death rate in the U.S. highlights the urgent need for improvement in maternal healthcare, as American women face the highest risks of pregnancy-related complications compared to other developed nations.
As another mother poignantly shared, “I think I still have PTSD from my horrible childbirth experience, and it’s been two years. I fear I could die in childbirth and leave my child behind.“
The Need for Change
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In summary, traumatic births are more common than many realize, with a significant portion of mothers experiencing severe distress during labor. The healthcare system needs to improve in terms of support and safety to help mothers navigate these challenging experiences.