As parents, engaging in discussions about race is essential. In these conversations, there are three phrases we need to eliminate from our vocabulary.
1. “I Don’t See Color”
This notion suggests that we overlook the rich diversity that exists among different racial groups. Just as children learn to distinguish between colors like blue and purple, it’s vital to recognize and discuss the various experiences that individuals of different races encounter within a society that often operates with implicit biases—unconscious preferences that influence our actions and decisions. For a deeper understanding of your own biases, consider taking a free online test.
2. “All Lives Matter”
To illustrate why this perspective misses the mark, think about a house fire. The fire department doesn’t spray water on every house in the neighborhood simply because “all houses matter.” When we say “Black Lives Matter,” it doesn’t mean that other lives are less important; it’s a call for equality and recognition of the systemic issues faced by the Black community. So, let’s all have those brave and necessary discussions about race, because ignoring the issue is like letting a fire spread.
3. “I’m Not Racist, So I’m Not Part of the Problem”
Remaining passive in the face of racism actually contributes to the issue. If you’re not racist, it’s crucial to become actively “anti-racist.” This means educating yourself, following leaders who are making strides in this area, and not expecting your friends to do the work for you. As parents, we have the power to make significant changes, but it requires collective effort.
Additional Resources
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Conclusion
In summary, it’s crucial to speak openly about race and eliminate phrases that undermine the complexities of these discussions. We must recognize and address our biases, support movements for equality, and actively engage in anti-racist work.