As a white Christian woman who regularly attends church services—currently online due to quarantine—I’ve experienced a significant shift in my faith journey. Three years ago, before the tragic deaths of individuals like Ahmaud Arbery, Breonna Taylor, and George Floyd, my family made the decision to leave a predominantly white evangelical church. We were disillusioned with the political atmosphere and felt that while our children were recognized, they weren’t truly seen. Now, we find belonging in a predominantly Black congregation where our multiracial family is embraced and supported.
Last Sunday, I anxiously awaited updates from fellow white Christians about their church experiences. Would their pastors directly address racism, proclaim that Black Lives Matter, and encourage congregants to stand in solidarity as allies? Unfortunately, my fears were confirmed. Many leaders chose to completely sidestep the issue of George Floyd’s murder, opting instead for vague messages of peace, some even quoting Martin Luther King Jr. as a token gesture. This has left white Christians at a crossroads: do they continue attending or choose to walk away?
The core of Christianity is love—loving others as oneself is a fundamental biblical principle. The scriptures also emphasize that faith without action is lifeless. Prayer is vital, but it is not the only expression of love for God and humanity. Christians are called to be the hands and feet of Jesus, exemplifying His love through active engagement. Moreover, they are meant to be “salt and light” in the world.
Many who have distanced themselves from the church, or never felt connected to it in the first place, often cite hypocrisy as a major reason. They see a disconnect between what is preached and what is practiced. It is perplexing that congregations across the nation engage in prayer for people of color yet fail to take concrete actions, such as reading anti-racism literature, participating in protests, or supporting progressive candidates. If you’ve felt disillusioned by the church, you’re not alone.
Jesus was a person of color who stood against injustice. He performed miracles and challenged societal norms, including flipping tables when necessary. He often retreated for prayer only to return invigorated to serve those in need. His actions were bold, and his purpose was clear—he sought to uplift the marginalized.
Some white Christians mistakenly believe that discussions of politics and social justice have no place in spiritual settings. They prefer sermons that soothe their discomfort and reinforce their views, often failing to recognize that their inaction supports systemic racism. Their silence speaks volumes, and they might convince themselves that mere gestures—like sponsoring a child or showcasing diverse imagery—make them anti-racist. However, these actions can often veer into tokenism.
I firmly believe that churches, like individuals, fall into one of two categories: anti-racist or racist. There’s no middle ground, as noted by author Ibram X. Kendi. It’s vital to understand that becoming anti-racist is an ongoing journey rather than a one-time achievement. Pastors do not need to deliver perfectly crafted messages to address racism; the absence of dialogue is, in itself, a message indicating indifference towards the value of Black lives.
A pastor who professes the love of God should also be prepared to advocate for others, embodying the essence of friendship as described in the Bible. We are called to prioritize others’ needs and share in their grief.
If white Christians continue to support passive churches with their attendance and financial contributions, they inadvertently perpetuate harm against their Black siblings in faith. Exposing children to a sanitized version of Christianity fosters ignorance and potential future bias. Moreover, tithing to a church that perpetuates white supremacy only reinforces these harmful ideologies.
My faith has been a cornerstone in my life, guiding me through personal battles, including a serious health crisis. God’s love was my anchor during tumultuous times. Experiencing racism directed at my family has compelled me to find a church that serves as a sanctuary, allowing me to assert confidently that Black Lives Matter.
To my fellow white Christians, I urge you to embrace this truth with conviction, not hesitation. Reflect on your faith and the teachings of Jesus, then seek out a place of worship that aligns with these values.
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Summary
This article discusses the necessity for churches to actively support racial justice and the implications of remaining in congregations that do not. It highlights the importance of taking action, rather than merely offering prayers, to stand in solidarity with marginalized communities.