Dear Stay-at-Home Mom,
Hello! I’m a working mom, and I believe that, despite our different daily realities, we share more similarities than differences. Yet, when I browse the internet, it often feels like a contest over who’s more overwhelmed or who’s putting in the most effort.
Here’s my take: Motherhood is a collaborative effort. We need each other to thrive, and to do that, we must understand one another better.
So, dear SAHM, here are five insights I’d like to share about my life as a working mom:
- I See You: I’m fully aware that your days are packed. You work hard, and I respect that immensely. I’ve experienced weekends solo with my child, and let me tell you, it’s exhausting. Your ability to manage everything for your little ones while handling the household responsibilities is no small feat.
- Work Isn’t a Getaway: My job can often feel like a relentless marathon. With deadlines, clients, and bosses to answer to, I’m usually racing against the clock. I rarely enjoy a long lunch break because I’m constantly preparing for the possibility of receiving “The Call” from daycare that my child is unwell. I push myself to stay ahead so that when that call comes, I can drop everything and be there for her.
- I Crave Connection: I genuinely want your friendship. I see your posts about playdates and activities with other moms, and I can’t help but feel a pang of envy. Building a community is trickier for working moms like me. So if you spot me at the park in my work clothes, please don’t judge. I’m there to enjoy precious moments with my child before I head home to tackle dinner, just like you.
- I’m a Full-Time Mom, Too: Believe me, I’m fully engaged in raising my child. I’m not merely delegating my parenting responsibilities to others. Even when I’m at work, I’m in constant communication with my daughter’s school and doctors, and I strive to plan special activities together whenever I can. My experience as a mother is about balancing work and home, and part of that balance is providing financially for my family.
- I Didn’t Choose My Job Over Motherhood: This misconception really stings. It’s not as if my husband is ever accused of prioritizing work over family. I work because my family relies on my income, and I genuinely enjoy my career. Furthermore, I believe in the importance of women’s representation in the workplace and strive for better conditions for future generations. I want a brighter future for my daughter and your daughter, too.
So, SAHM, let’s unite. Instead of focusing on our differences, let’s embrace our complementary strengths. Together, we can pave the way for our daughters to have more choices in balancing work and family, and for our sons to be supported when they face similar responsibilities.
Let’s join forces. It’ll be a rewarding journey, and I’ll bring the snacks, I promise. And SAHM, I know you have your own thoughts to share. I’m all ears and ready to listen.
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Summary
This letter highlights the similarities between working moms and stay-at-home moms, urging them to support each other rather than compete. It emphasizes the hard work of both roles, the need for community, and the common goal of creating a better environment for future generations.
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