Parenting
By Jamie Reynolds
Updated: Jan. 22, 2021
Originally Published: June 20, 2019
It’s all too easy to lament the behavior of today’s youth. We often reminisce about our carefree childhoods in the ’80s or ’90s, thinking, “We had it so much better. We weren’t burdened by social media pressures. We spent our evenings biking and playing outside. Our parents were relaxed and not hovering over us. There was no vaping to harm us, no smartphones or video games turning us into couch potatoes. And cheating our way into college? That was unheard of back then.”
But let’s take a moment to reconsider. While it’s natural to idealize our past, if we can overlook those questionable fashion choices—like perms, acid-washed jeans, and shoulder pads—we might just see the reality of our youth more clearly. The truth is, teens in the ’80s and ’90s weren’t necessarily more responsible or better behaved than today’s kids. In fact, in many respects, they faced challenges that today’s youth do not.
Recent findings from the Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance Survey—a government study on teen behavior that has been conducted since 1991—reveal some surprising truths. Comparing these results to our own experiences can be quite enlightening. It may even inspire some optimism about the future, as this current generation has many strengths we should celebrate.
Insights from Recent Surveys
So, what insights have we gained from the latest surveys? For starters, today’s teens are engaging in fewer risky behaviors. They smoke less, drink less alcohol, and consistently wear seat belts. They are having less sex and practicing safer sex when they do. The rates of teenage pregnancies have significantly decreased since the ’90s, and fewer teens are involved in physical fights. Interestingly, despite the concerns about school safety, today’s youth are less likely to bring weapons to school compared to 30 years ago.
If you’re surprised by these findings, you’re not alone. Many adults believe that teen behavior has worsened over the years. A 2013 study revealed that half of Americans thought teen pregnancy rates had increased, while only a minority recognized the truth: that those rates have dropped dramatically since our own teenage years.
Challenges Facing Today’s Youth
Of course, not everything has improved. Today’s children face rising obesity rates and are consuming fewer vegetables. While cigarette use has decreased, the popularity of e-cigarettes presents a significant new challenge that we are just beginning to understand. Perhaps the most alarming trend is the rise in mental health issues among youth. After a decline from 1999 to 2007, suicide rates have surged by 56% over the past decade—a concerning trend that experts are still trying to unpack. Some attribute this to technology and social media, while others point to the impact of overly involved parenting and bullying.
My personal belief is that the tumultuous nature of our society in recent years, marked by division and negativity, certainly doesn’t help.
Yet, I remain hopeful. My own wonderful kids, who are brave enough to stand up against bullying and inspire me with their kindness, give me faith. Additionally, the remarkable young individuals who advocate for gun control, climate action, and social justice reassure me that the future is in good hands.
As parents and community members, it’s crucial that we maintain our trust in today’s youth. While it can be nostalgic to reflect on our own simpler days, we must also acknowledge that the younger generation is navigating their own set of challenges and opportunities. Our role is to support them, shower them with love, and watch as they rise to make a difference in the world.
This article was originally published on June 20, 2019.
If you’re interested in learning more about insemination options and processes, check out this excellent resource on the IVF process.
Summary
In reflecting on the youth of today versus the past, it’s vital to recognize the many positive changes that have occurred. Today’s teens are making healthier choices, engaging in less risky behavior, and showing resilience in the face of challenges. While there are growing concerns regarding mental health and new forms of substance use, there is also much to celebrate about this generation. As parents, our responsibility is to support and empower them as they tackle the issues of the future.