Guidance for the Daughter I May Never Meet

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Dear Darling,

I’ve decided it’s time to share some wisdom with you. Even though you’re not here yet—and let’s be honest, I’m getting on in years—I think about you often. I hope this collection of thoughts will offer you a guiding light as you journey through life, whenever that may be.

1. Read To Kill a Mockingbird—it’s a classic for a reason.
2. Treat yourself to solo outings; learn to enjoy your own company.
3. Find a passion that’s uniquely yours.
4. Be daring; don’t shy away from taking risks.
5. Hold hands with those you love; it’s more meaningful than you realize.
6. Share your favorite books and music; good art is meant to be enjoyed together.
7. Attend a concert featuring a band you’ve never heard of; expand your horizons.
8. Fall in love frequently, but guard your heart; it’s a delicate balance.
9. Discover the right bra for you; comfort is key.
10. Avoid driving by his place; it’s rarely a good idea.
11. Identify something about yourself that you truly cherish.
12. Remember, a spontaneous road trip can solve almost anything.
13. Flip items at the checkout with barcodes facing out, like your grandmother taught me.
14. Be cautious of women who lack close friendships; they may not be trustworthy.
15. Relish every new experience.
16. Celebrate your achievements, even if they differ from those of your peers.
17. Find a person or thing you can rely on.
18. Master the art of saying “no” when needed.
19. Absolutely no cats!
20. Discover a lipstick that expresses your feelings.
21. Create your ideal napping environment; it’s essential for your well-being.
22. Only you can narrate your life story—make it compelling.
23. You are always more beautiful than you perceive.
24. You will inevitably run into him again.
25. Write letters; it’s a lost art worth reviving.
26. Patience is a virtue; Grandma Lucy instilled that in me, and I might name you after her.
27. Seek a travel companion who complements your style.
28. Embrace your scars; they tell your story.
29. One more text is rarely a smart move.
30. Make sure to completely dry your hair after washing.
31. Always choose a female gynecologist; comfort matters.
32. Learn to enjoy your own solitude.
33. When abroad, memorize essential phrases: Where’s the bathroom? How much? That’s too much. Don’t touch me.
34. Accept that not all friendships are meant to last.
35. Love is a wild ride—messy, chaotic, yet utterly beautiful. Embrace it.
36. Send your kids to summer camp; it’s good for them.
37. Always bend with your knees; it helps avoid injuries.
38. Treat yourself to tulips; place a penny in the vase for longevity.
39. Have a go-to movie that soothes you at night.
40. Maintain your body like you would your car; both deserve care.
41. Know how to handle emergencies; always have a plan B and a place to cry.
42. Treasure the laughter and joy that come from a phone call.
43. Gather stories and friendships; they are most precious when shared.
44. Seriously—don’t drive by his house.
45. Bangs will eventually grow out.
46. Shoes will always fit; don’t stress about that.
47. Avoid gin—it can lead to trouble.
48. Learn every lyric to a standout song; I recommend Hotel California by the Eagles. I might name you after him.
49. Pack more medication than days you’ll be gone; it’s better to be safe.
50. Respect intentions; even if execution falters, appreciate the effort.
51. Learn my grandmother’s kugel recipe; it’s best enjoyed the next day.
52. Talk to strangers; you never know who might become a friend.
53. Practice gratitude: “Thank you” is how you accept a compliment.
54. Watch The Office; it’s a classic for a reason.
55. Listen when others speak about you; they might reveal parts of yourself you haven’t recognized.
56. Have a friend for tough love; it’s essential for growth.
57. Keep a no-questions-asked friend around; they’re invaluable in emergencies.
58. Never apologize for who you are; only for how you express it.
59. Find your unique strength; it’s your superpower.
60. When uncertain, pause before acting.
61. Someone out there always misses you.
62. Familiarize yourself with your best friend’s handwriting; it’s part of the bond.
63. If you must drive by his house, do it discreetly—lights off, windows up, radio silent, preferably in a different vehicle.
64. And for heaven’s sake, duck down!

With love,
Mom

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In summary, I hope these thoughts resonate within you, guiding you through life’s ups and downs. Cherish every moment, embrace who you are, and always remember that your journey is uniquely yours.