Ah, summer in the suburbs—a time when the pressure to look good in swimwear can feel like a rite of passage, often leaving us feeling embarrassed and self-conscious. After years of wearing oversized shorts and using my kids as human shields, I finally decided to invest in my first official mom swimsuit.
Leaving the kids at home (seriously, don’t even think about bringing them along), I headed to the mall on a Saturday morning. The journey was challenging, and let’s just say it wasn’t a walk in the park, but after several hours, I emerged victorious, clutching a sleek black one-piece that flatters my figure and provides decent coverage. Plus, I snagged a stylish cover-up!
After trying on countless suits that just didn’t cut it, I began to notice patterns in what worked and what didn’t. While body types and gym attendance (if only mine were more consistent) play a significant role, here are some tried-and-true tips that helped me find my perfect mom suit without hating it.
1. Straps Matter
Extra support is essential—gravity is real, especially when you have little ones who love to tug at your suit. I tried on a chic strapless option but quickly imagined my toddler yanking it down to say “hello” to the “nursies” in front of everyone at the pool. Hard pass!
2. Coverage is Key (Skirt Optional)
I’ll be honest; I initially resisted the idea of a skirted suit. I’ve always preferred board shorts. However, to my surprise, I found that many adult swimwear options provide ample coverage. Plus, some of the skirt styles were surprisingly elegant—not at all like the tacky floral ones from my childhood. Sorry, Grandma.
3. Solid Colors are Your Best Friend
While I love a fun pattern, they can be overwhelming—especially if you haven’t been to the gym in ages. Solid colors or color-blocks are more refined and flattering. I went with classic black, but if you find a bold red halter in your size, go for it!
4. Incorporate Some Bling and Ruching
I never thought I’d say this, but a little bling can elevate a mom suit. I spotted several stylish gold clasps and tasteful ruffles during my search. And let’s not forget about ruching—this magical feature can cleverly conceal the evidence of those late-night snack runs. With ruching, you can indulge in your child’s leftover pool pizza without worry.
5. Embrace Your Current Self
This is crucial: while you can ignore the other tips, don’t fall into the trap of wishing you could turn back time. Most of us don’t look as we did in our 20s—unless you’re a celebrity with a personal trainer, of course. Instead, focus on finding a suit that enhances your favorite features and allows you to enjoy the summer without feeling self-conscious.
Now, where did I leave my cover-up?
In summary, finding the right swimwear doesn’t have to be a daunting task. With the right knowledge and a little confidence, you can enjoy your summer poolside without any worries. For more on pregnancy and home insemination, check out this excellent resource here.
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