For many families, holidays can be quite challenging, especially those navigating the complexities of autism. As parents, we often hope our children will partake in the same festive meals as everyone else at Thanksgiving. We wish for them to sit still and, if we’re lucky, even glance at the camera for a family holiday portrait. We often plead with them to don that charming suit or beautiful dress for Easter Sunday services. We long for them to embrace the holiday spirit instead of becoming overwhelmed by sensory inputs, leaving us to cut our celebrations short. As the mother of an 8-year-old on the spectrum, I understand this struggle all too well. Each year, I find myself bracing for the challenges of the holiday season—except for one special day: Halloween.
Halloween stands out as a holiday where blending in is actually frowned upon. It’s a time when being unique and different is celebrated, allowing my son to shine in his individuality. It provides a special opportunity for him to share his unique interests—such as his fascination with quirky objects like fire alarms and microwaves—in a way that garners positive attention.
I vividly remember when my son was four and had his heart set on being a microwave for Halloween. Initially, I thought, “Oh no, what will others think? Shouldn’t he choose something more ‘normal’?” However, after transforming a cardboard box with some silver spray paint, his passion became a reality. Dressed as a microwave, he could express his excitement by beeping, discussing microwaves, and flapping his arms in joy—much to everyone’s delight.
Since that first Halloween, it has evolved into a cherished occasion where my son can fully embrace his interests, no matter how unusual they may seem. From being a microwave to a deck, a fire alarm, a tornado, and this year—a haunted house—my family and friends eagerly anticipate what unique concept we’ll bring to life next. Although it’s often a challenge to execute, the results are always magical.
So, for those of you parenting children with autism, I know that holidays can feel daunting. Halloween might seem like just another holiday to endure, but I encourage you to view it from a new perspective. Celebrate Halloween not because everyone else is, but because your child embodies the essence of being different—something that is perfectly acceptable on this day.
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Summary
Halloween is a unique holiday that celebrates individuality, making it a joyful occasion for families with children on the autism spectrum. It allows children to express their distinct interests without the pressures of conformity, creating a magical experience for all involved.