I recently found myself at the park with my one- and two-year-olds when another mother remarked on my pregnancy with a third child, saying I was really in the thick of it. It’s true—navigating life with three kids under three brings its fair share of well-intentioned comments from others. I chuckled at her observation, but honestly, I kind of enjoy the chaos. Here’s what it’s like:
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Doctor Appointment Overload
With regular pediatric check-ups, urgent sick visits, follow-ups with specialists, my prenatal visits, and ultrasounds for the newest addition, my schedule is packed. Just wait until they’re in organized sports and after-school programs! -
Potty Training Adventures
My two-year-old is starting to recognize when he’s using his pull-up, while my one-year-old recently had a little accident on the floor. Thankfully, it was on the hardwood—good for me, right? -
Tantrum Central
The emotional rollercoaster of toddlers is intense. I’m grateful for shows like Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood that provide catchy phrases to help us all cope: “If you feel so mad that you want to roar, take a deep breath and count to four!” -
Decision Fatigue
From minor choices to significant life decisions, every single one can lead to second-guessing. It’s a constant mental exercise! -
Exhaustion on All Fronts
Between cleaning, remembering tasks, and caring for the kids, I’m perpetually worn out—physically, mentally, and emotionally. -
Constant Contact
I can never leave the house without my clothes getting covered in snot, juice, or sunscreen. My “lived-in” look has become a badge of honor. -
No Personal Space
As a mom, privacy is a myth. Even a simple shower or bathroom break comes with an audience and unsolicited commentary. -
Life as a Referee
I’m constantly negotiating with my kids—“Can you share your toys so your sister can play?” or “You’ll go to time-out if you swing that golf club one more time!” -
Adoring Compliments
My two-year-old often tells me I’m the prettiest mama. If only I could feel like a celebrity every day! -
Big Kisses
I’m showered with slobbery kisses all day long. It’s a miracle I don’t catch every bug that comes through! -
Cherished Snuggles
These moments of cuddling, reading together, and being part of their imaginative play won’t last forever. I often wonder how I’ll cope when they start to grow out of it.
So, for now, I’m content to embrace the whirlwind. It’s a beautiful, messy life, and I wouldn’t trade it for anything.
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Summary:
Navigating the joys and challenges of raising three children in three years is a whirlwind of doctor visits, potty training, tantrums, exhaustion, and endless love. While the chaos can be overwhelming, each moment is precious, and I’m grateful for the snuggles and laughter that fill my days.