Raise your hand if you feel like the odd mom out. slowly raises hand with a hint of awkwardness. Ugh. I’m a total introvert, and social situations can be a minefield for me. When I’m feeling uneasy, I find myself overly fixated on my kids, which is my not-so-secret coping mechanism. I’ve genuinely tried to cultivate friendships with other moms, but it often feels like a series of failed attempts.
Should I ask for her number? Maybe suggest getting together? It feels like I’m navigating the dating scene all over again, but this time, I’m even more uncomfortable. It’s frustrating, especially in my late 20s—why am I more socially awkward now than I was as a teenager? Whatever.
Have you ever sent a friend request to a potential mom friend on social media only to be left hanging when it goes unaccepted? That feeling of uncertainty—like “did she not really like me?”—is unbearable. It’s the worst! And then when you bump into that mom again, you’re all sweaty and awkward because you can’t shake the embarrassment. It’s reminiscent of passing those “Do you like me? Check yes or no” notes back in school. So nerve-wracking!
In our modern world, having a supportive community of moms is essential. We need fellow women who uplift us and offer encouragement when we need it most. The good news? Your tribe doesn’t even have to be nearby. One of my closest friends resides in another state, and many of my best connections stem from a group of moms I met while expecting my first child. It’s almost like online dating, but for motherhood. I had no idea how similar forming friendships was to dating, but here we are.
Ultimately, every mom needs a source of love and support. We all crave friends who check in on us, who understand the chaos of parenting, and who can provide a listening ear when our children drive us to the brink. No judgment, no superficial chatter—just genuine love and encouragement.
Seek out the other awkward mom. She’s out there, just as you are. Look for the one who distracts herself with her kids to avoid small talk or eye contact. Find the mom who has also sent out a few awkward friend requests. She needs you, and you definitely need her.
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In summary, if you feel like an outsider in the mom world, remember that you’re not alone. There are other moms out there who are just as awkward and in need of connection. Reach out, find your tribe, and embrace the support that comes with genuine friendships.