Growing up, my home was a central hub for my friends after school. It was conveniently located along their routes, and my parents, being quite sociable, often welcomed our friends. As my sister and I aged, it felt natural for our friends to frequent our house. My parents enjoyed getting to know the kids we spent time with, which made the atmosphere even more inviting. On any given day, you’d find a handful of kids scattered in our living room, kitchen, or backyard, and generally, everything went smoothly.
While my parents had few strict rules, one principle stood out: respect. This simple guideline encompassed how we treated our home, our belongings, and, most importantly, one another. Now, as my kids invite their friends over, I find myself following that same philosophy. I cherish having my children at home, aware of their whereabouts and their friends. Noise and a bit of mess are tolerable; after all, kids will be kids. But let me be clear: disrespect will lead to immediate consequences.
So, under the broad concept of “Be considerate in my home,” here’s how I break it down:
- Be Kind.
If I overhear you bossing other kids around or snatching toys away, it’s not going to fly. And while I know my children aren’t perfect angels, if they behave like that, it’s time to head home. Kindness is essential; take turns, share, and avoid poking each other with sticks—basic human decency applies. - Use Common Sense and Show Respect for Our Space.
As a kid, I would never have wandered into a friend’s parent’s bedroom or a space that was clearly off-limits. So, kids, please stay out of my bedroom—there are no toys here. If I say, “Don’t climb on the patio table,” or “Don’t touch that electric drill,” you should listen. Stick to the actual toys. I’m more than happy to bandage scrapes, but I don’t need additional chaos. - When I say go outside, go outside.
Sometimes, I need a moment of peace, or I don’t want mud tracked into my house. We have a spacious yard, a swing set, and plenty of outdoor games. I’ll even provide snacks on the patio. My kids got kicked outside too, so everyone’s treated equally! - Stay Out of My Pantry.
I love providing snacks, which is why we buy in bulk. While I’ll set out a variety of options like fruit snacks and crackers, I’m the one who decides what’s available. As you grow older, I may stock a fridge for you, but I still get to choose what goes inside. Just ask if you’re hungry; no rummaging around, please. - Leave When I Say It’s Time to Go.
Please don’t ring the doorbell repeatedly if I tell you it’s not a good day for a visit. Most of the time, I’m happy to welcome you in, but occasionally, I need a break. Pay attention to the signals when it’s time to leave, like “Thanks for coming! Time to go home!” - Don’t Take My Kids’ Stuff.
Trading toys is fine, but sneaking items into your pockets? That’s a no-go. If you took something without permission, you’ll need to return it before you can come back over. My children may have cool toys, but they remain here. - Bathroom Etiquette Matters.
Feel free to use the bathroom, but please aim, flush, and wash your hands. My kids can be messy enough without adding to it.
In conclusion, you’re welcome to play, eat, and make noise in my house; just remember to be respectful, and we’ll get along just fine. Oh, and if you need more information on home insemination, check out this helpful resource.
See you all soon! —Mrs. T in the charming house at the end of the street.