Dear fellow moms,
I’m exhausted from hearing your excuses, and honestly, I’m tired of making them myself. Why do we feel the need to explain every little flaw to our friends and neighbors? Why do we justify things we can’t change or don’t even want to?
You don’t need to tell me that your daughter dressed herself today. I can see it—she’s rocking that wild outfit of purple stripes, red polka dots, and pink hearts, even if it’s on backwards. Her hair might not be ready for a viral YouTube tutorial, but it’s fine. You managed to run a comb through it, and that’s a win!
Your house isn’t spotless? Shocking! You have kids! It’s unlikely to be clean again for the next 18 years. Don’t bother telling me it’s just because you’ve been busy or had guests over; I don’t want to hear it. My home is a disaster zone thanks to my mini tornadoes. I’m just trying to maintain a path to the door!
Struggling to fit into your pre-baby jeans? Seriously? Shame on you (as I sneak a donut). The truth is, most of us are in the same boat. Some are trying but haven’t seen results, others have medical reasons, and some simply don’t care. Whatever the case, your waist size is your business. Instead of blaming a hectic schedule or a failed diet, let’s go for a walk together. We both need it, and the kids will enjoy the fresh air too.
Your bake sale cupcakes didn’t turn out like the Pinterest pictures? It’s totally fine! After several attempts, I gave up and bought mine from the store. My kids are thrilled because the “ugly” ones at home are fair game. Even the best bakers have their flops, so let’s embrace our non-perfection! It’s really frustrating to hear apologies for things that just happen.
Did your toddler make a naked dash through the neighborhood? At least he remembered his socks! We’ve all been there. Instead of hanging your head in shame and mumbling excuses about how he escaped, let’s just laugh about it. Kids can break out of anything!
You don’t need to leave our playdate early because your 2-year-old is still mastering social skills. Mine smacked someone once too. We’re all in this together, learning as we go.
You don’t owe anyone an explanation for putting your child on medication or for choosing to stop homeschooling this year. You’re the mom! Trust your instincts because that’s what parenting is all about.
So next time you feel the urge to apologize for your messy hair, cluttered car, unkempt lawn, or shoeless child—don’t. Please stop. I don’t want to hear it. The only thing you should apologize for is pretending to be someone you’re not. I like you just the way you are, imperfections and all.
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In summary, embrace your authentic self and let go of the need to apologize for being anything less than perfect.
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