“Mommy, I wish I could be just like you.”
My young daughter often gazes up at me with admiration, whether it’s because of my stylish shoes, vibrant nail polish, or the sparkly necklace I wear. While her words are sweet and heartwarming, they weigh heavily on my heart. The truth is, more than anything, I wish to embody her qualities.
She is a force of nature—strong-willed and determined. When she hears “no,” it only fuels her ambition. These traits, while challenging for me as a parent, will undoubtedly serve her well in the future. She refuses to be defined by anyone else’s limitations and embraces her individuality. Whether it’s singing loudly on the train to showcase her knowledge of the lyrics or confidently asserting herself in any situation, she embodies a fearless spirit that I admire.
Observing her mimic my mannerisms—the way I speak, the way I interact with her brother—makes me realize the weight of influence I hold. She wants to wear a bag like mine or push a stroller the way I do, and it pains me, not because I don’t appreciate her admiration, but because I don’t want her to inherit my fears. I’ve let doubts and insecurities dictate my choices; I’ve settled for less than I deserve in both my career and my relationships.
I envy her uninhibited joy and her ability to stand up for herself. I wish I had been as bold as she is when I was her age, unafraid to confront challenges head-on. She finds delight in the simplest of things, and it’s a joy to witness.
As I reflect, I realize she may be a reflection of who I once was, a time when I possessed that same spark. This little girl, who refuses to wear pajamas and believes she is one of her teachers, is my inspiration. She has accomplished remarkable feats, like counting to 100 just to prove she’s as capable as her older brother. Her self-awareness—knowing when she’s full—is something I aspire to emulate.
I hope she retains this fiery spirit throughout her life, undeterred by the trials of growing up, from unkind peers to challenging academic tests. I wish for her to always recognize her worth and stay true to her essence, despite the obstacles she may face.
Bedtime with her can often feel like an endless negotiation, filled with stickers, stories, and a mountain of stuffed animals, but in those moments, I sense she is destined for greatness.
Dear daughter, my deepest wish is that you embody your own extraordinary self rather than becoming a replica of me.
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In summary, my greatest hope for my daughter is that she remains true to herself, embracing her uniqueness while navigating life’s complexities. May she always carry her vibrant spirit and confidence with her.