1. The Pure Delight on Their Faces
When I tell my kids that yes, it’s a school night but they can enjoy one more cherry Popsicle before bedtime, the look of joy on their faces is absolutely priceless. While I recognize the essential role of rules in our lives, a little break from them can bring immense happiness. We all understand that feeling of indulgence—who doesn’t love an extra piece of Trader Joe’s dark chocolate peanut butter cups?
2. Life’s Short and Unpredictable
The news serves as a constant reminder of life’s fragility and unpredictability. I’m not suggesting that we indulge in every whim or buy every toy on their birthday lists. However, acknowledging the brevity of our time together encourages us to savor moments. When your child asks for one more kiss before heading off to school, even if you’re running late, take that moment to indulge them. Sometimes, it’s worth stopping for just one more kiss—or maybe two.
3. Fostering Thoughtfulness
Occasionally surprising my children with gifts for no particular reason teaches them the importance of thoughtfulness beyond basic manners. It could be a new Lift the Flap book I spotted during lunch or a quirky toy from a local store. While gift-giving isn’t the only way to express care, it certainly enhances their understanding of thoughtfulness. A painted rock gifted during a tough time or a handwritten note can have a profound impact.
4. Creating Lasting Memories
Making memories requires intentional effort from parents and caregivers. Whether it’s an impromptu trip to the park or an extra few minutes outside to catch fireflies, these moments matter. Reading one additional story at bedtime or allowing them another slice of cake on a special occasion—these actions create cherished memories that they will hold onto forever. Even if you’re exhausted, one more snuggle is always worth it.
5. It Just Feels Right
Sometimes, I see something—a quirky chocolate or an exciting outing—and I just know my kids will love it. There’s an inner voice that encourages me to go for it! Of course, I’ve had to ignore that impulse during tight financial times or when it simply doesn’t make sense. However, when the opportunity arises, I seize it, and I’ve never regretted those choices.
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In summary, indulging my children is a conscious choice that fosters joy, thoughtfulness, and lasting memories while reminding us to cherish our time together. It may seem trivial, but these moments create a foundation of love and connection that lasts a lifetime.