It was a typical evening with friends when we decided to dine at a local restaurant. As we entered, I was immediately captivated by the hostess’s radiant skin. It had that perfect, dewy quality that makes you feel both admiration and a hint of jealousy—definitely the kind of complexion that fuels the booming skincare market. I didn’t mention anything to her, thinking it might come off as strange. Instead, I simply thanked her for showing us to our table.
After indulging in a couple of martinis during dinner, I felt a newfound sense of boldness wash over me. As we were leaving, I approached the hostess’s station. “I hope I’m not bothering you,” I began, “but I couldn’t help but notice how stunning your complexion is. It’s absolutely flawless!” Her face lit up as she placed a hand on her cheek, clearly taken by surprise. “Thank you so much!” she replied, her smile radiating warmth. As I exited, I glanced back to see her still beaming.
Perhaps she receives compliments like this frequently, or maybe my words were just what she needed to uplift her spirits that night. Regardless, it was a positive exchange for both of us. Compliments can brighten someone’s day, but sharing them can be equally rewarding. This made me ponder why we often hold back such kindness.
While it’s understandable to refrain from negative comments—since they can lead to unnecessary conflict—what do we lose by not sharing genuine compliments? Why do we hesitate unless we’ve had a drink or two?
Take a moment to observe a women’s restroom in a bar. If you linger long enough, you’ll likely hear enthusiastic shout-outs like, “I LOVE YOUR DRESS!” or, “Your makeup looks amazing!” Drunk individuals often speak their minds with a sense of honesty that seems lacking in everyday interactions. The key difference between complimenting someone inebriated and doing so soberly is simply the influence of alcohol. The sentiment remains sincere and without ulterior motives.
Imagine if we voiced our positive thoughts every time we noticed something admirable about a stranger. Personally, I find myself secretly appreciating various traits in people all the time—like the mom in front of me at the grocery store with the perfect messy bun, or the teenager who is so kind to their younger sibling. I often wonder why I don’t just speak up. After all, what’s the worst that could happen? No one is likely to react negatively to a compliment; if they do, it’s a reflection of their own issues, not mine.
I’ve resolved to share my thoughts openly from now on. If I see someone with an impressive pair of shoes in the frozen food aisle, I’ll let them know. They’ll feel a boost of confidence, and I’ll enjoy the act of giving a compliment. More importantly, our children are observing how we interact with others. While they may miss out on the revelry of a bar restroom, they will certainly notice how we treat those around us, shaping their future behaviors.
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In summary, the small act of complimenting a stranger can create a ripple effect of positivity. We often hold back our kind words, yet sharing them can enhance not only the recipient’s day but also our own. It’s a simple yet profound way to spread joy and set a positive example for future generations.